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skyfullmoon
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How about the guys that say they want serious relations?About the guys you talk to for hours and hours,day after day,week after week,they tell you that they like you and he is talking only with you but he is all over the place trying his luck with all the girls?I don't ask you if you meet them,i know you do,i ask:did anyone meet a guy who really meant when he said he want a serious relation?
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terrybogard23
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skyfullmoon wrote: How about the guys that say they want serious relations?About the guys you talk to for hours and hours,day after day,week after week,they tell you that they like you and he is talking only with you but he is all over the place trying his luck with all the girls?I don't ask you if you meet them,i know you do,i ask:did anyone meet a guy who really meant when he said he want a serious relation?
actually this happens to guy's too,i have talked to alot of women like that,say your the only one,talk to you like your the only one,make you believe your the only one,while there talking to someone else or multiple other guys.some just plain lead you on,and that is messed up.just be straight up in the beginning,that way you won't waste anyone's time.LOL i mean im aware some people aren't sure at first,but there are those people that know if they are gonna date you within those first days or whatever while your talking or once they see you or whatever.LOL
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fyrefylli
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`It's a tough call to know when to when serious is really serious. Most of us are serious about finding someone serious, but we're scared of being hurt. There is no way to know if the person on the other side of the screen, the phone, or even the table is being honest.
I believe it either stems from I've been hurt beore and I will not be hurt again or I've seen others get hurt and I'll be damned if I'm gonna let that happen to me. Whereever it stems from, it always hurts. Sometimes in a way that makes you want to strike back at others, sometimes in a way that makes you beat yourself up.
We are social beings in an unsocial world.
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cloverlady56
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`Sometimes things just don't work out like we planned. I met a man on an online game. We saw each other 5 times and were planning a future together. I still have my wedding dress in the closet. Out of the blue he says he has decided I'm too old for him. Then I find out he has moved from Tennessee to Nevada. He told me he was on an oil rig in the ocean. Two days before Christmas he says friendship yes, relationship no then Merry Christmas and Happy New Year. He has never given me any explanation for him changing his mind or why he felt the need to lie to me. I would be friends with him now but he refuses to talk to me. I don't have a clue as to what went wrong but I was totally devastated and am still deeply hurt. There is a reason things happen even though we don't understand it at the time. Maybe I'm meant for someone else.
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