Why BBW/SSBBW?

[roughsexmakeit_PREV (deleted)]

Why do men like BBW/SSBBW so much?

I constantly ask this question because I really don't see why..
It also affects my self-confidence because I don't know if he's really into BBW/SSBBW or just wants to ---- with a fat girl.

So if you do decide to vote on this thanks

[meish (deleted)]

It's not a matter of why... it's just a matter of preference.

It's the same as to why you are attracted to the types of men (or women) you are. Simply just because you are.

People tend to dig different body pieces, no matter what their preference of size is.

I am totally feeling ya girl, I remember being there. Years upon years of brain washing doesn't let go easily. Being told you are less a person, and don't deserve the same as the standard sized person. That you can never be sexy, or attractive..... or how about the "your face is pretty, but...." line. I'm sure we've all gotten that one at some point.

It's about loving yourself from the inside out! Sexy is a state of being, not a dress size. And I know there's tons of dudes up in here that will contest to that. There's always someone for everyone...

As far as creepy dudes, meat heads, and dudes who are just looking for a piece, being a big gal or not they run rampant. You just have to use good judgement, but even at that there's still always the risk.

NEVER settle for less!

Peace n' Kisses

Meish

[annabell (deleted)]

Meish how did you come to such a great mindset? I don't know if I will ever feel that confident.

[allwashedup]

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[awakeindark]

Just like the whole mentality, that most larger women hold. I am only 19 but so far in my life the only girls that I have seemed to feel comfortable actualy conversing with are large girls. I have not yet found anyone who I have bonded with , which is most likely my fault (I am not social at all but I just love everything about a full bodied, carefree, confident girl.

Oh and yeah I voted boobies
Rough Meish and Annabell yall are looking beautifull,and that was a great explenation Meish
have a good one, Nick

[meish (deleted)]

annabell wrote: Meish how did you come to such a great mindset? I don't know if I will ever feel that confident.


For me I think it was spiritual awakening, and changing my perception. The stereo-types we face everyday are surely only a matter of perception, and a warped one at that. I decided long ago that only my own opinion matters when it comes to me. I am the person I am, and how I feel is everything. Being sexy as I stated is a state of being! I FEEL SEXY, therefore I am! I think the first thing you have to do is let go of all the stereo-typing, all the brain washing etc. You are no less a person because you are big, you are no less sexy because you are big. There is a wealth of size-positive websites on the internet. Use these as tools of empowerment. The more you allow your perception to change, the more you accept how you are, as you are, the more often you look in the mirrow... and just point out at least one thing that is lovely to yourself.... the more you will accept yourself. And with in time (all easier said than done of course) you will view yourself with different eyes.

We are all beautiful creatures, we ALL deserve the right to feel beautiful. Don't allow others to make you feel as if you are not worthy, don't allow others to set your standards. By releasing them you can find yourself, and with in finding yourself you can see all your beauties, inside and out. Eventually you'll learn to love yourself as the being you are, as you are, inside AND out. But you have to release, and chip away at all the BS that has been implanted with in your mind-set from the moment you were born.

Peace n' Kisses

Meish

[meish (deleted)]

awakeindark wrote: Just like the whole mentality, that most larger women hold. I am only 19 but so far in my life the only girls that I have seemed to feel comfortable actualy conversing with are large girls. I have not yet found anyone who I have bonded with , which is most likely my fault (I am not social at all but I just love everything about a full bodied, carefree, confident girl.

Oh and yeah I voted boobies
Rough Meish and Annabell yall are looking beautifull,and that was a great explenation Meish
have a good one, Nick

Thanx Nick! And thanx for being so free and expressive with your desires (of luvin' the big gals). I think it rocks you dudes are stepping up to the plate, and sincerely showing all these beautiful ladies just how beautiful you find them to be. Very Kickin'!

Smooches

Meish

[bigdaddy4bbw38 (deleted)]

roughsexmakeit wrote: Why do men like BBW/SSBBW so much?

I constantly ask this question because I really don't see why..
It also affects my self-confidence because I don't know if he's really into BBW/SSBBW or just wants to f*ck with a fat girl.

So if you do decide to vote on this thanks let me start by saying i love bbws there --- there boobies there tummys there all except there bad attitudes i mean i guess its the world that said fat girls are ugly or bad or nogood .i say i love bbws im married to a bbw .i have nothing but bbw nuddie mags bbws rock bbws rule i love bbws ask anybody. you are a hot bbw.so please sweet heart feel good about your self because you have a real man in south florida who think your hot

[bigdaddy4bbw38 (deleted)]

roughsexmakeit wrote: Why do men like BBW/SSBBW so much?

I constantly ask this question because I really don't see why..
It also affects my self-confidence because I don't know if he's really into BBW/SSBBW or just wants to f*ck with a fat girl.

So if you do decide to vote on this thanks please reply rough

[bigdaddy4bbw38 (deleted)]

i only want bbws .why becuase ther hot stupid.lmao no honest i think women are suppose to be supple voluptous like mother earth.not all skinny and annerexic what ever ( skinny crackhead) lol not to mention the boobies and the butts the lips the face yummyi love bbws hot hot hot love always bigdaddy4bbws

[samuel1986]

I have yet to see men's reasoning on these pages for liking "BBWs" and wanting one other than for them to be a turn on or a fantasy, seriously that's the way they're writing and if you don't believe me read above. Why is that? Honestly if that's the only thing that draws you to women such as these good ladies please leave. If this makes you mad you should take a step back and look at yourself and ask why am I here, and what do I wish to gain from my envolvement in this site. And if you can't find one really good reason, either go or come straight out with your intentions and tell people exactly what you want.

And if you're wondering my main reason for liking women who just happen to be a little larger than what is considered average is because usually they've been through some of the same cr@p I've been through and will accept people for who they are and won't, in my case, take one look at me, rip out thier eyes, burn them, and then run away screaming. And as for the poll I put other. Why because beauty on the inside actually counts for some of us. And if your personality is ugly so are you.

[rolypolybhm4u_PREV (deleted)]

I agree with everyone except for one factor which is the biggest reason I love big women is their inner spirit. which is absolutely the most impotant thing. That and the fact that a big woman tries harder to please her man than a skinney mini will.

[cdntwintower_PREV (deleted)]

I like bbws cause they are more level headed and down to earth. They don't care what others thinks. They are sexy and they know and show it. It doesn't matter the size once you get to know a person that what you are truly attracted too, the person not the body. A volumptuous full figured lady is more comfortable to cuddle and relax with in front of the fire tv or just hanging out.

[tropicalbreeze]

hmmmm I'm beginnning to think were teddy bears...hmmm or couches...hehehe? Anything else beside the cuddling, fondling, cushions....blah blah blah. For heaven sakes I never saw big men like that.

Well I'll be back....gotta go clean my padding....take care and luff you guys!

[luvmbignbrainy]

I agree with all the stuff about personality and overall niceness being more common with BBW. But fundamentally --BBW make my hands happy. I love to hug and caress and squeeze soft flesh. With a non-BBW, my hands are bored. I don't like to squeeze and fondle bones or muscles. I'm very tactile, and when my hands are happy I'm happy.