Are BBW's considered Low Maintenance ?

[blonde4u_PREV (deleted)]

I have had several men say they like larger women because they are low maintenance. Like we are cheaper and don't ask for as much as the skinny women. I take offense to that. Why are we low maintenance, are we not considered as worthy of nice things as the small women? Am I taking it the wrong way? I just don't understand what this means completely. Any men out there or women that could clear this up for me?

[tcfreedom2004]

Bonde4u,

Most men will attempt to grab hold of a larger woman for various reasons. Some want them to be housekeepers, bedmakers, occasional S-- partners, and laundry people. For some reason they believe we are just happy to have someone is our life so we will accept just about anything. We should be offended by this because we need a lot more than that. In my opinion, a person who thinks this is not the person for you. Keep in mind that if he thinks that he will act accordingly. Let him know that you are not low maintenance by your actions. Good luck on this site.

[chuklezs247_PREV (deleted)]

This makes no sense to me at all!! High/Low maintenance issues are usually a personality thing not a weight thing!!As the saying goes better to give than receive so why not give your signifigant someone all of you anyway and see what you get, you will be pleasantly surprised!!

[hiwayman (deleted)]

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[melusina_PREV (deleted)]

`I am also irritated by the low maintenance/desperate for sex-love-men stereotype about fat women.

[togirl37 (deleted)]

`It isn't just fat ladies who get low life men hitting on them. The internet draws them in. Problem is sleezy people scare away the decent ones and the ratio sways.

[twizabeth]

It is a personality thing. My profile says I'm low maintenance, because I am. I've met girls my size and a bit bigger that are pickier, more demanding, and just above all high maintenance.

[cnipur (deleted)]

.I would think with the stigma of feeling "fat", some people seemingly give up on aspects of their maintenance. It's not necessarily a bad thing until you neglect basic nutritional or hygienic needs.

High-maintenance can also be bad, as you set unrealistic standards that very few, if any people, meet. Life is about compromise, and if you want to be big, and beautiful, you'll have to take some very basic steps, like perhaps brushing your teeth or bathing

[thuggmiss07]

I tend to be a Medium Maintainence Girl- if that makes sense..lol
I am EXTREMELY clean, and love showering, shaving, makeup,doing my hair, clothes, purses, shoes ect.lol.I enjoy looking and smelling good. I might be a FattyGirl, but i think that im half way attractive for being one.lol. I just have weight on me..
But When it comes to expecting a whole lot from a guy i dont.. i just expect him to be clean, hard working, care for me, and deffiantly not a SCRUB!

lol.which isnt that hard to ask for...

[sweetestgurl21 (deleted)]

Any guy who just wants to date a big girl because they are deemed low maintance is just plain STUPID!! I dont think I am low maintance whatsoever, I can be happy wearing clothes from anywhere as long as they compliment my body but I do like high end shoes and handbags just like the next skinny girl. Just like thuggmiss07 said, I consider myself to be medium maintance, so I am easy to please :D

[bigcutiekitkat]

Unfortunately I have seen alot of BBW women and also BHM so to say "let themselves go" just because they feel they are not worthy. If anything we should be giving that extra effort to proove to society, that it isn't just the skinny chicks and fit men that can look good.

I see sooooo many big girls and men that will go shopping, out to eat, or just in public in general wearing sweats, and a tshirt, with no makeup and hair not done, or not shaven.....even when I have gone to BBW events there are gals and gents that just take no pride in themselves.

It doesn't take that much time nor effort to spruce yourself up people !

Sometimes the smallest thing will boost your confidence....even if its just a new updated hair style..or how about even a new shirt? You can find decent clothing around at deep discount outlet stores and they aren't pricey..and that will give your look a boost. ....I have even shopped at the goodwill outlet stores....no shame in my game !

Personally for me, I always thought I had to go one step above..to make sure that I do not stand out as a frumpy fat girl. I am not considered to be high maintenance...but I do however like to look my best.

Society portrays that enough for us..we don't need to add fuel to the fire.

xoxo

Kit

Lets show them what we got...!! It doesn't take much.

Be comfortable with the skin your in..It's yours..love every inch of it !!

[kirsty000]

someone that would be with someone becouse they think that there partner is low maintenance is not worth been with
people like that just want to beleve they are better than there other half becouse they have a low self of steam
large or small we all have wants and needs
if someone said they want a large girl that is low maintenance
they mean they just want someone they can walk all over
and they can treat like s---e and wll put up with it.
they dont go for skinny people as they think they are more confident
and more happy so it would be to hard to control them

Stay clear of men like this
Been a strong willed woman will scare these guys away anyway

[pixxiestyxx (deleted)]

`Big or not, every girl loves to be pampered, appreciated and taken care of!!

[misscandyshop]

ok yeah ive heard that to and that is so not true but alot of people think just because we are bigger that we dont take care of our bodys or anything but let me tell you i get my hair done my nails done and i wear nice clothes.....so for all those people who think that yall are so wrong

MissCandyShop

[wiiman (deleted)]

`So howcome I have always spoiled my girlfriends (ALL BBW) with stuff such as gifts, movies, vacations from my pocket...

So my answer to your question is NO!!! BBW are like any other women in the world...

Cheers