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surfergirl188
surfergirl188
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I was cheated on with the person I was with six years with a very sexy girl. As a bbw its a slap in the face to me. I just ended up feeling that I couldnt compete with someone like that and I just gave up. I hurt me very much. I started to question myself and how I choose to live my life. All in all it shoot my self esteem very much. My question is how do you get over the trust issuse that come with being cheated on. I know many of you have been at some point in your life and I just want to know scam pass this so I dont let this effect my future relationships.
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losttexan
losttexan
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`I'm sorry that has happened to you, and it has happened to me and a lot of other people. The only thing I can say is it taught me to be more cautious and more aware of future relationships. You just have to determine what you will NOT stand for and let it be the guide as far as trust issues go. You shouldn't let it scar you so badly that you can never trust again. There are GOOD guys out there who believe in being in a one woman relationship, but unfortunately, we have to weed them out. XD
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ggr1972
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some guys are jerks.......and sadly they get most of the women.
i'm betting you'll find a much better guy than him, because he's the exception...not the rule
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southernfinery
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`yes there are some men that are jerks and if these are the exception and not the rule then we should have something else or someone else to base that on.I mean it is said that for evil to triumph good men need to do nothing.It is also said that behind every good man is a good woman.If the good men want and desire a good woman then shouldn't there be at least an introduction?,,,,,dearest ladies let me tell you about someone I met when I was full of pain and my heart was broken into a thousand pieces.His name is Jesus and he will put trust back into your heart.He will heal you and he will teach you all you need to know and he will even guide you into a relationship that you will swear was designed for you from the beginning of time itself.He won't leave you when the stuff hits the fan and he won't let you down.You won't be disappointed or frustrated nor will you ever feel alone in a room full of people again.As a matter of fact he is waiting on you to choose him because he won't ever force you.If he sounds like the kind of guy you need or would like to know more about then where you are at right now,close your eyes and bow your head and make sure it's quiet around you and in you.Ask him to reveal himself to you.Ask him to show you the true desires of your heart and just be open to receive.The urging to pray that you will feel,go with it,don't fight against it.I promise you that your life will change in a very nice way and a very painless way.gbu
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