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shydirtydancer
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I am always very honest, genuine, sincere, and myself when a guy approaches. EVERY guy even though they approached me blows me off and for no reason stops talking to me. I figure it is bc guys have too many choices and I don't measure up to the other women in terms of looks bc I can't mess up or bore a guy after talking to him a few days. All I ask for is a chance and cannot even get that. Is there a way to keep a guy interested instead of the minute another woman comes along, I no longer exist? Before you tell me to have confidence in myself I know I have a lot to offer but, cannot prove that unless I get a chance to. I have been online dating for over 3 years and it always turns out like that. I hate going on a site and seeing a guy I have been talking to on there when he is not answering and he has had time to bc since that is what the others did who did just blow me off, I feel like it is happening again. I am pretty shy and this just makes it worse.
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jeanne2b2b
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`Dear Shy-d-dancer, I suggest you read "Act like a lady, think like a man" by Steve Harvey. A comedian that uses humor to get straight to the point about romance relationships, and its written in such a way that the average Jane & Joe will understand it immediately It's a tiny book that travels well, and will have you laughing at life and a new perspective. I wish you good luck on meeting and maintaining a good relationship.
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terrybogard23
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shydirtydancer wrote: I am always very honest, genuine, sincere, and myself when a guy approaches. EVERY guy even though they approached me blows me off and for no reason stops talking to me. I figure it is bc guys have too many choices and I don't measure up to the other women in terms of looks bc I can't mess up or bore a guy after talking to him a few days. All I ask for is a chance and cannot even get that. Is there a way to keep a guy interested instead of the minute another woman comes along, I no longer exist? Before you tell me to have confidence in myself I know I have a lot to offer but, cannot prove that unless I get a chance to. I have been online dating for over 3 years and it always turns out like that. I hate going on a site and seeing a guy I have been talking to on there when he is not answering and he has had time to bc since that is what the others did who did just blow me off, I feel like it is happening again. I am pretty shy and this just makes it worse.
i compeltely agree with you,and this happens to guy's too.and ecspecially when you said you have to give me a chance to see my greatness,i tell that to people all the time,you will never know unless you give a chance to find out so true.i have had some of the same experiences as you as a guy,it really goes both ways.i do wish you all the luck though,much luck to both of us. ^_^
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wynslove
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shydirtydancer wrote: I am always very honest, genuine, sincere, and myself when a guy approaches. EVERY guy even though they approached me blows me off and for no reason stops talking to me. I figure it is bc guys have too many choices and I don't measure up to the other women in terms of looks bc I can't mess up or bore a guy after talking to him a few days. All I ask for is a chance and cannot even get that. Is there a way to keep a guy interested instead of the minute another woman comes along, I no longer exist? Before you tell me to have confidence in myself I know I have a lot to offer but, cannot prove that unless I get a chance to. I have been online dating for over 3 years and it always turns out like that. I hate going on a site and seeing a guy I have been talking to on there when he is not answering and he has had time to bc since that is what the others did who did just blow me off, I feel like it is happening again. I am pretty shy and this just makes it worse.
It's the same with me as well. I can't afford the paid dating sites so I've joined practically ALL the free ones with absolutely NO LUCK. Not even here. lol. I'm a beautiful loving woman who deserves to be treated well & respected. I don't understand why that is so HARD for people..... =(
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ggr1972
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`preaching to the choir.......
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