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wildflower68
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Why body size dictates whether you are important or not. I am saddened and tired of people who judge people on their size. I know I have blogged about this before, but Im seeing alot of beautiful and handsome men on her that are what society is think is big, and ya'll look good, but by some of the profiles I actually do read, you all seem like you have good hearts as well.. This breaks my heart that people are so cruel about body weight.. I really admire the big girls on here with confidence and dont let "society" get to them, you all are beautiful, just wish I could lose this sadness Im feeling because of the judgement toward me just because IM not a twig.. You know what?? I really dont want to be a ----ing twig.. LMAO , but I am getting so sick of these @ssh*les saying, if you lost weight you would be hot.. Who gives the ---- about looks, they all fade eventually That was my rant for the eveing. I hope ya'll are all happy having a good evening... Anna
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losttexan
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`I think they let weight dictate us as a society because all of our lives we were taught to eat these healthy foods, drink plenty of water, and get a good nights rest, and if you don't, this is what could happen. So, in my opinion, it makes me feel like a rebel because I didn't listen to what anyone had to say when I was younger. Lol. Seriously though, some people just don't get it. They haven't been through it so they don't understand how one could "let themselves go" and just lose the weight. Easier said than done, for one thing. Another thing is we just need to be happy with they way we are, big or small. Does it really matter? I mean, to some, yes. Should it be that way? No, but that's the way things are and by speaking up about such things I think it lends a voice to the BBWs/BHMs in the world.
Sorry for rambling. Lol.
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wildflower68
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`Thank you for your input losttexan. I do agree with what you say. I am learning as I get older I really do need to take better care of myself, but I see what you are saying about always being told what the "right" way is. Every commerical bombards us with diet commericals, etc.. I think we all should just be who we are, and society needs to stop "dictating" and tell all of us what is acceptable and beautiful. It bothers me sometimes, but I should just be thankful for the most part Im healthy. I have survived cancer, I live daily with hypothryoidism, and survied "other things".. I guess I shouldnt focus so much on this, but have noticed the difference on how people treat me since I have gained weight..
Anyway, talking about rambling, I do that alot on here.. LOL
Have a good day... I plan on it.. :)
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truckerjerry
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`from the point of view of a big guy
seeing that i am 6'2" tall 350# or so and not as round as most guys my weight but strong and built when i apply with a carrier they go nuts
after all i am going to be able to haul a sofa from the moving van into the household myself , right , incredible strength right?
bullos---o amigo thats what i pay the hired help for and eventually the agent gets mad about it and leaves me holding the bag cause after all i should have unloaded the entire household myself !! right i'm a big ol boy!
and yes i have noticed the way it is with women especially . they cant stay far enough away from me and the other big guys....... that is till they need someone to use then guess who they come to .
i have been dealing with this stuff from the time i was 11 years old so although it used to make me bitter and angry , nowdays i just accept it as fact cause it will take more than me 2 change it.
thats why i am on this site to get away from all that s--- . and look i have been really lucky and found myself in the company of good folks like you wildflower
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wildflower68
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`Yes truckerjerry, it does go both ways, but alot of you might not agree, and you might not agree, but I think its more accepted by society for guys to be bigger, and not women. I could be wrong, but its just what I have noticed. Not disregarding your feelings or experiences or anything...
Thank you for your comment, and you are pretty awesome yourself. :)
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shydirtydancer
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`I think animals are a lot smarter and better than people bc they don't give a damn about size and looks, just how you treat them and they can tell a good person a mile away. Maybe God should have given animals dominion over the world instead of the other way around. What really gets me is guys won't even consider dating but screwing a BBW bc they know we are good in bed and know how to treat them. What adds insult to injury about most guys is that weight can be lost with the exception of some medical cases, duh!
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`I'm agree with you,shydirtydancer!
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shydirtydancer
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`Awwww, thank you. It makes me feel great that you see where I am coming from.
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`I'm almost 30 and I don't understand it at all either. I've got to the stage whereby I no longer care - I am me, and yes I may be more Sunday Park League than Premier League in the looks department but I am me and if people don't like it it's their problem.
So long as you are a genuine and good person, it should be enough for people. We can't all be supermodels - but we can be super at being ourselves.
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