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confuseddesires
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i feel like somethings wrong with me sometimes. i have what i guess you can call commitment issues. i have never really wanted to date and when i did i dumped them really fast even if they were great guys. at times i will feel like i should have a relationship but it seems like a whole lot of trouble...... then i start thinking maybe im not attraced to the right S-- but i dont feel like having a relationship with females either....... im wondering if im just confused because at times i feel lonely and want someone, then other times i just feel fine by myself. am i the only one who feels this way?
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fatuglyguy
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`Well let me ask you a question. Who says you have to have a relationship with a man? or a relationship at all?
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cookinbubbles
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`Fatuglyguy(God I hate typing that name!! It makes me feel rude) brings up a good point.
No where does it say you HAVE to have a relationship to be happy.
On the other side of your coin are people who will go out with anything, steadily date any idiot just so they are not alone.
In my opinion, you are the smarter of the 2 to realize you are happier alone.
There could be many reasons for this.
Perhaps your own family was never the "committed forever" kind of family. Perhaps you have been hurt badly in the past.
Perhaps you truly are happier when not in a relationship.
I think that is okay as long as you are okay with it and really are happy.
If so, don't let anyone else try to talk you into have a relationship with someone simply for relationships sake.
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terrybogard23
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confuseddesires wrote: i feel like somethings wrong with me sometimes. i have what i guess you can call commitment issues. i have never really wanted to date and when i did i dumped them really fast even if they were great guys. at times i will feel like i should have a relationship but it seems like a whole lot of trouble...... then i start thinking maybe im not attraced to the right S-- but i dont feel like having a relationship with females either....... im wondering if im just confused because at times i feel lonely and want someone, then other times i just feel fine by myself. am i the only one who feels this way?
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actually yes,ihave felt this way alot of the time.sometimes i feel find by myelf,sometimes i feel really lonely.but i know in my hard ido truely want someone,try to hang in there. :(
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vikingwolfie
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`One thing i would ask is do you like S-- and if so do you like S-- with men or men and woman or just woman ? you dont have to be in a relationship to be happy i ahd a woman that i was her S-- toy she didnot want to be with anyone but she likes S-- so she asked if i would be the person that she could come to for S-- have you thought of trying something like that ?
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