what do you find sexy about bbw/ bbm?

[d3von_PREV (deleted)]

what i find sexy about bbw is size.[/b]

[midnightrider55_PREV (deleted)]

What I find sexy about bbw's are their hearts, mind and the way they connect emotionally.

[(deleted)]

`I just find a thicker body more attractive! Skinny girls don't do it for me, give me a plus size model/actress over any toothpick model/actress everyday!!

[jaymewaslike (deleted)]

`lol, so you guys are saying size DOES matter?

[xjenniferx (deleted)]

Everything usualy mentaly and physically.Thicker people to any extent are just plain sexy in my opinion.

[dutchie57]

`In my experience BBWs tend to be ladies with real personalities rather than shallow and obsessed by their appearance. Their appetites are also very real-in every sense!!

[andriek]

I agree with the consensus about personality. All the ones I have know, are not superfecial, but nice and kind.

and physically I just like curves I guess would be the best way to put it. Like rounder hips more than anything. I also just like to hold or cuddle often, so it is nice to put my arms around someone that isn't boney, if that makes sense.

[terrybogard23]

yes i agree that BBW have better personalitys,and are usually better people in general.BBW also have better bodys in my opinion.naturally large breast,natural hips,fuller faces,naturally large butt.i just find thicker women more attractive then any other women of any other size.

[89shifty (deleted)]

`I like curves, like booty, but not a complete dolt though.

[sheevaa]

`I know plenty of thin gals that are awesome, with great personalities. I also know some bigger women that are definitely high maintenance. I think body type *can* have an affect on how a woman acts. If she is thin and gorgeous, and has had everyone cater to her since she was born, of course that will play a part in her personality. Say a bigger, less attractive woman is spoiled by her parents and finds a great guy who caters to her as well...well, I think the result may end up being the same.

You'll still have a spoiled princess a$$hat on your hands:P

In my opinion, your youth, environment and experience make up your personality, weight will be secondary.

However, with the way our society treats obesity and thinness, it's not surprising the way a lot of women are. That so many bigger women are shy, read more and generally seem to work on their personality more.
Whereas a thin women may have a much easier time in life, at first. It will be a much bigger hit once looks start fading, then what is she to rely on? She never got the life experience of standing on her own two feet and going through the hardships that we all have.

In that way, I pity the "gorgeous" people. They may never really take the time, or think it's necessary to find out things about themselves. Spend tons of money on surgery and botox to try and halt something none of us can avoid. Some may never really understand that there is SO much more to life than looks, I find that sad.

Anyway, sorry about the big rant here *gets off soapbox* I just don't like skinny bashing anymore than fat bashing:P

[cookinbubbles]

` "Some may never really understand that there is SO much more to life than looks, I find that sad."
Boy you said a mouthfull there.
While I understand the attraction thing, I will never understand why some people put so much importance on appearance. There is a reason why there is an old saying "Love is blind."
I agree, I don't care for the skinny bashing either.
I don't care for any kind of bashing.

[southernfinery]

`I could have sworn that the original poster asked what did we find sexy about bbw/bhm's.Sheeva honey is everything ok?lol.You know this reminds me of that game we played in school where everyone would get in a circle and a secret would be passed from ear to ear and at the end it would surprise everyone how the original secret got so turned around.I think now they call it the gossip game......Back to the question at hand---I personally find the thicker frames sexy because to me they just look healthier.

[sheevaa]

`There were some comments regarding thin women all being shallow, had no personalities, toothpicks, etc, etc. None of us like it when we're made fun of or stereotyped as being lazy slobs. I just went off, hehe. Panties are unbunched now, I swear:P

[sheevaa]

`To answer the question up top, though. I love a bigger man because it makes me feel so much more secure. I find them just more cuddly, and dang it, to me, love handles just look better!