Does someones appearance really mean someone on a date?

[thedarkknight99]

Personally I'm just more fond of bigger women. I love the way their bodies feel against mine. I never ever look a bbw as if she cant get a man. All the Women I Have ever dated are In demand and I have to fight for their attention .

[luvmbignbrainy]

binnyme wrote: `Wow. Quite a few responses, huh? Do men really think BBW's are better in bed? Cuz I don't get that impression. I sometimes get the impression that the perception is that we are passionless. That for some reason, our size directly affects our libido. Does anyone else get that?



Let me answer that question by posing another:

Which is more fun: a trampoline or an ironing board?

[twistedlilpixie]

sheevaa wrote: `"Do men really think BBW's are better in bed"

An old "acquaintance" (certainly not anymore:P) of mine once told me he thinks BBW's are more passionate because we have to jump on the opportunity whenever we manage to get it. *eyeroll*
Obviously an idiot, I can see how much we are appreciated, even if society at large doesn't agree. --- isn't really that hard to find if you really want it, and I hope the vast majority of us don't fit that stereotype.




The only men I've known to think BBW are better in bed, are men that are into BBW. I too have heard rude remarks as to why some men sleep with or fool around with BBW or SSBBW. Remarks such as " well they're good at giving head because they're used to gobbling stuff down their throats" or as this woman remarked, they think its easier to get us in the sack because they think we're so desperate and that no one wants us that we'll sleep with any guy that asks us too. I'm sorry that some of you women have experienced the things you have. I too have had such horrible types of moments. They think they can just use and abuse us because to them we're just "fat chicks". Also I've heard some really stupid people make such remarks as " well fat chicks have bigger vagina's and are looser,etc". Its like, " hey dumbass, bigger on the outside, doesn't mean bigger on the inside". I personally don't think your size has anything to do with how good in bed you are. However I do still think, even with the statistics showing that over 50% of americans alone are considered overweight or obese, that so many people are still so cruel and unaccepting of larger people. It's an atrocity that such people think its ok to treat us like crap simply because we're overweight. I really hate the old stereotype that fat people are fat because they eat too much and are lazy. I barely eat anything, and move around a lot and have been very active my whole life. However I've also been larger my whole life. Not all of us are blessed with high or fast metabolisims. As far as I'm concerned, if you talk to these people ( men and women, talking to men and women) and they can't accept that you're larger, or stop talking to you or make fun of you, then screw them ( and not in the good way). Like I tell people all the time..." you think I'm fat and/or ugly, then don't look at me". Simple as that. Let them wallow in their shallow little world. That way when they're in their mid 30's or 40's and can't figure out why they're alone, you can just sit back and smile. We all know, Karma is a B----. Heh. ( pardon the language please) ( also I rant a lot and apologize ahead of time )

"Always be yourself. Those who mind, don't matter. Those who matter, don't mind"

[kyborniabred]

`I guess i'm lucky because i've only dealt with guys that love bbws and we have had great times. i was talking with a few ppl one time and learned that sometimes guys and/or girls get the impression that since we carry extra weight our stamina might not be up to par. Like we'll get in the middle of a roll in the hay and get too winded to finish. OBVIOUSLY not true, but that's a point that was made to me one time... just thought I'd share.

[xmissxlaurax]

`I remember a year ago or so...I was in a bar with my friends - a guy came up to me...told me I was pretty and so on...and then told me that i'd be really beautiful if I lost some weight.

My response back to him was: "I'm either beautiful, or i'm not." and walked off!

[twistedlilpixie]

xmissxlaurax wrote: `I remember a year ago or so...I was in a bar with my friends - a guy came up to me...told me I was pretty and so on...and then told me that i'd be really beautiful if I lost some weight.

My response back to him was: "I'm either beautiful, or i'm not." and walked off!


I've sadly too had this happen. even in highschool. I had a guy tell me he'd consider dating me if I lost weight. How shallow eh. I guess you can't expect much from people anyways though. Especially since so many are brainwashed to think that thin is the only thing thats sexy.

I even know this girl. she was much larger over a year ago. She got on some serious diet pills and became addicted. she's still large, but lost like 75 lbs ina year. she told me I should get on them. now she thinks she's hot s--- and dresses like a ----. the worst part is., she's married and hangs all over other guys even in front of her husband. and her and a mutual friend or her husbands are always all over each other, and no one says anything about it. i'm so sick of thin people, or women that lose a lot of weight and think they're hot s---, acting like whores and B----es. ( mind the language,) however I'm having a very horrible day/night/week/month...you call it. Thanks for all you non s---ty people. Good hearted people like most of you, is the only thing that keeps me going.

[xmissxlaurax]

twistedlilpixie wrote:
I've sadly too had this happen. even in highschool. I had a guy tell me he'd consider dating me if I lost weight. How shallow eh. I guess you can't expect much from people anyways though. Especially since so many are brainwashed to think that thin is the only thing thats sexy.

I even know this girl. she was much larger over a year ago. She got on some serious diet pills and became addicted. she's still large, but lost like 75 lbs ina year. she told me I should get on them. now she thinks she's hot sh*t and dresses like a ----. the worst part is., she's married and hangs all over other guys even in front of her husband. and her and a mutual friend or her husbands are always all over each other, and no one says anything about it. i'm so sick of thin people, or women that lose a lot of weight and think they're hot sh*t, acting like whores and B----es. ( mind the language,) however I'm having a very horrible day/night/week/month...you call it. Thanks for all you non s---ty people. Good hearted people like most of you, is the only thing that keeps me going.



I too have friends that think they are all that after they have lost weight. They didn't like it when a guy we all fancied was interested in me (this was a now ex boyfriend!)

They all tried to say that he only wanted --- and so on because i'd be 'easy'...Little did they know that
a) I'm not easy
b) Guys are actually interested in me

I ended up having a 6 month relationship with him.

Out of all of my friends..i'm usually the one guys talk to. It's not because I come across as desperate or easy...it's because I have some sort of personality!

[twistedlilpixie]

Laura I think you are a very pretty woman. Also I do tend to notice a lot of the times when larger women ( and even men sometimes) lose large amounts of weight, they also seem to lose a lot of their personality and appeal. Yeah they may be more physically attractive to most people, but their new attitude sucks and no one wants to deal with them.

Also I'm sick of people assuming that big girls are "easy" because we're desperate for man meat. I'm not, nor have I ever been "easy". Besides, if I'm that hard up to get off, thats what toys and batteries are made for ( sorry to sound dirty, but we all know its true)

"Such sweet words, Uttered through lying lips"

[xmissxlaurax]

`Thank you

Sucky attitudes are definately annoying. Wow - so they have lost a lot of weight - well done to them but it isn't a big deal. I'd lose weight if I wanted to. I'm very happy the way I am. Would maybe lose a stone or 2, but..yeah.

Ahh toys and batteries... best things invented ;)

[sensualintelect]

Only for those unknowledgable that chemistry is a completely internal concepts, and those are not really that interesting anyway?