Getting shot down constantly..

[kingmarsxxx32]

So I got shot down by almost 10 girls already today just because I am chubby and built wide.. what ever happened too " Don't judge a book by it's cover??? Seriously, I know that when you try to find a date that your not always going to get a chance, but it's been almost 6 years since I have had even a failed date lol. Why is it so difficult for a big guy too find anyone who finds him attractive?? Maybe you ladies can tell me what is wrong.. I am tired of the " did you know your fat? " question too!

Voice Acting is like getting 300 bucks to say "anal bleeding"

[kingmarsxxx32]

`Sorry, I am not trying to be a downer or anything.. just haven't slept in a week and this vampire life I have been forced too adjust too is a little much, I am just very lonely and mix that with the darkness and it isn't good lol.

[bigmaineguy]

`Sadly it's always harder for bigger guys......women don't want to "settle"

And the whole "book by it's cover" thing only applies to women......

[lyricalgirl]

`I totally get where you are coming from. From a ssbbw stand point it's hard too. men can't seem to get to know me. all they see is how "fat" i am. I am one of the women who also believe that you don't judge a book by its cover. all i've been able to find are men who say they love big women, love bbw's, ssbbw's and then right after they say that it's ALWAYS all about the S-- talk, naked pics... when you say you aren't that girl POOF.. the guy always stops talking. I know that as soon as i say that i'm looking for something of substance, poof... gone again. i mean come on, isn't anyone looking for something real and someone who is faithful.

as for the loneliness I can relate to that as well. sometimes it's so overwhelming it's hard to breathe.

I'm beginning to think that i may be alone for the rest of my life to be honest. who knows.. I am happy.. i'm not one of those women who need a man to be happy but I really miss having someone to love, someone who loves me for me. for who i am rather than what i look like.. maybe it's a pipe dream. but i for one and holding out for my special someone. even if he's 1000's of miles away and our relationship starts out as a long distance thing...

keep your head up!!

[angelnoir]

`I feel you, there are a lot of people who say one thing, but they have no follow-through. You have to find a way to stay positive. And if people can't accept you for who you are, keep it moving. You can't expect a blind person to see who you are. I truly believe there is someone out there for everyone.