How Important is my Sex?!!

[princessadriana]

Like seriously! Men! How soon do you expect to be between our legs? Does it depend on the girl? When you are doin online BBW dating, what exactly are you looking for? In all honesty! When you see a girl in her bra and panties....is the thought, "I 'm going to make her my wife", or is it something more realistic? I just want the guys to stop and be completely honest, no mater how hurtful or obnoxious or inappropriate it might be. I'm sure us women won't be mad, because it something we really wanna know!!!!

This is why I love that VH1 show, Tough Love!!!

Kisses and Cupcakes
Princess

[bigmandrew]

`First off let me just say that a man has a physical need to ejaculate. If we do not ejaculate our testosterone will spike in about three weeks and it will be hard for us to focus on anything else. This is not a flaw. This is what keeps the human race propagated. We can take care of this problem ourselves, but we like doing it with a pretty girl a whole lot better. One of the things that make men fall in love is that women help us out with this problem. So if we meet a girl we really like, find physically attractive and have a good --- life with we will most likely fall in love with that girl.

How soon we expect to sleep with you does depend on both the man and woman. Some men want to wait til marriage, but some men only want one night stands. In my personal case it's from a woman to woman basis. I'll do whatever feels right and use my best judgment. If I feel like I have a strong connection to a girl and having --- right away feels like the thing to do, I'll make a move. Sometimes though I feel like I should wait a while so I do. At the same time what men are looking for from online dating varies as well. Some men are looking for a wife, others just want to see your b--bs. Again I myself personally feel like I fall somewhere in the middle. I'm not necessarily looking for a wife, but I'm pretty sure I'm going to be married someday. At the same time, I do want to see your b--bs, but I'm not that big of an @ssh*le to just come right out and say it. When I see a pretty girl in negligee the first thing I think is that the girl is sexy. It would never be "I'm going to make her my wife" because she could be bat s--- crazy or we could just not get along. What men want from marriage is not just a good looking girl. We want a good looking girl who we get along with really well and click with --------.

The truth is that everything varies and it's all somewhere in the middle. We like having sex, but most men could not deal with just having --- and nothing else. We want companionship, love, romance and all the other things that come with a relationship, but we also have a physical need for ---.

[princessadriana]

`I really love your response, and I appreciate you for it. You are a sweet boy, but I want to know the thoughts that run through a guys mind. Like what are you guys thinking when you see those panties....hmmm ----ty maybe? Easy lay? What should a woman not do, to turn you into the natural perves you guys are, no offense. Im a little pervy myself, ahahahaha. I know that if it is presented to a man on a silver platter all juicey and wet...A guy is gonna eat...period. That's why I don't go the "overly seductive" route. But what is it that makes you want to wait for a girl? And I know how important it is for a man, hell, even a woman, to have a release. But what kind of girl would make you torture yourself or spend lonely nights wanking? LOL

Again, even the crudest of honesty is accepted.

Kisses and Cupcakes
Princess

[bigmandrew]

`There's two thoughts I have on that.

First off, and I can only speak for myself on this, I will think more long term with a girl based on a couple of things. First and foremost, we all look for a girl we click with. Do we laugh at each others jokes, have the same kinds of interests and have lots of stuff to talk about. On top of that I'm going to look to see if your a woman of substance. I work really hard everyday for everything I have and I expect the same thing from a serious partner. Some one who has their own job, a big support group, a good relationship with family members, their hobbies and interests and overall isn't just looking for a relationship to fix them, but rather fulfill what they already have. The real answer here is that every guy is going to be different in what he's looking for. Remember that some guys goals are just to get laid, others want short term, some want long, some want marriage. You can ask some questions about what a guy thinks about his future to get some indication for what he's looking for.

The second thing I can tell you is that I've had a few serious relationships and at least half of those went really quick physically. Those relationships I found were much easier to turn into commitments. If that's what your after and you really like the guy, it's not always a bad thing to move things quickly. I've talked to a lot of my friends about this and they all agreed. I'm not telling you to put out right away, but it's some food for thought.

Good luck,

Andrew

Ps. I'm a man, damn it.

[bigsa (deleted)]

princessadriana wrote: Like seriously! Men! How soon do you expect to be between our legs? Does it depend on the girl? When you are doin online BBW dating, what exactly are you looking for? In all honesty! When you see a girl in her bra and panties....is the thought, "I 'm going to make her my wife", or is it something more realistic? I just want the guys to stop and be completely honest, no mater how hurtful or obnoxious or inappropriate it might be. I'm sure us women won't be mad, because it something we really wanna know!!!!

This is why I love that VH1 show, Tough Love!!!

Kisses and Cupcakes
Princess



To be honest If I see a women in a singles ad in a bra and panties and she has all the curves in all the right places, then yeah, I think I would like to get in there and do my thing. I think in a lot of cases is a girl is posing in that kind of "clothing" she may want the same thing. Then again if I see a girl in a nice dress, hair done and looking like shes ready for our date, then I would be more inclined to want to take her on a date and get to know her.

[goshujinsama]

`A women simply in bra and panties dosn't lead my mind to "whoo easy sex" it does however get my mind flowing in a ------ direction. but to be fair so does everything.

as for what would make me wait, nothing. I am very much a F**k on the first date kind of guy. don't want anymore serious relapthionships but if it turned into one so be it. I find most males are the same, spreading the seed untill they find that one special person worth being loyal to.