Hello From Northern California

[t74]

My name is Tarra and I am new here and it took me the longest time to work up the courage to set up an account on here. The reason for my hesitancy is how men who claimed to love larger women treated me. They would insist on going out, but the they would be very degrading. One gentleman (I use that term loosely) was extremely rude right from the beginning of the date, which he had insisted I go out on with him on. He even made the comment, "You are the largest chic I ever went out with. I'll tell you one thing. I will never go out with someone as huge as you ever again." That there almost made me stop dating all together, but then a friend of mine told me that I have just been dating jerks all this time and that there are real men out there who prefer to be in a relationship with a SSBBW. That's when I finally decided to give this site a try. I hope she is right.

[easilyamusedor (deleted)]

`Hi Tara, I'm so sorry that happened to you! Go ahead and try this, it' can't hurt! Just be careful. There are some good men on these sites, you just have to be patient and once you hear from one get to know him pretty well before you decide to meet.
There are others who troll the BBW sites because they want to date us, but they are closet bbw lovers and we are ok for a date and other activities, but they don't find us good enough for anything else so it will be a one date deal.
Lots of men are online just looking for --- and when they strike out with all the "hotties" they turn their attention to bbw's thinking we will be desperate enough to sleep with them.
One clue is this, if they don't have a pic on a bbw site, but you find them on other general sites and they do show a pic, run like hell!