High S-- Drive

[dolphingirl77]

I don't know about other BBW but i have a very high S-- drive, and in the past when i have been with thinner men my S-- drive is much higher than theirs.. which leaves me kinda se---lly frustrated alot of the time LOL .... For example at the moment i have a partner and to get a bit more S-- i am exploring my bi-side and have been seeking a female for fun as my partner doesnt mind me doing this...

Do you think thats just me? or have other BBW also find they have S-- drives??

[spagbol]

do you have any bbw friends?
steve

[dazzlingd_PREV (deleted)]

I recently read a study that stated BBW have higher S-- drives it has to do the storage of hormones. I always knew I had a healthy S-- drive and have always celebrated my s----lity. Now i just need a patner that I conect with

[heatherpienks]

girl i feel ya....i feel like i need to have S-- constantly, the last guy i was with was ok at first....but later on was too busy and so he couldnt hang..lol..so he had to go. yeah it makes me nuts not being able to get some whenever i want...lol

[beva_PREV (deleted)]

It has to do with hormones all right.... Fat cells store estrogen - estrogen drives the femal libido - ergo: Those of us who have more fat cells than others - have a higher concentration of estrogen in our systems which leads to higher S-- drive. YIPPEE!!!! I think this also leads to the fact that women who carry more weight than our thinner sisters.... are the lucky ones - because we tend to be multi-------ic, too.

I'm not so sure that we are also a little freer in respect to body image.... what I mean is: We have lived our lives either overweight - or a good portion of it that way - consequently we've learned early that the image we project is one of confidence in OURSELVES, instead of confidence in our physical image. We aren't bound by the "body" rules - we know that who we are is not confined to the physical space we occupy. Who we are is the mental, emotional and spiritual self we create. Because of this phenomenon - we are then freer to explore and acknowledge our ------- selves. Ain't it grand!!!!
I'm curious too - what's the difference between bbw and ssbw? I mean is there a pounds per square inch cutoff??

beva

[laidback4u_PREV (deleted)]

Hmmm?

[semisweet123]

I have always had a very high S-- drive whether I was thin or overweight. My ex-husband on the other hand was a s----l camel. He was uninterested most of the time.

I think that a lot of it is being comfortable with who you are and having a decent self esteem.

[tigershark]

dolphingirl77 wrote: I don't know about other BBW but i have a very high S-- drive, and in the past when i have been with thinner men my S-- drive is much higher than theirs.. which leaves me kinda se---lly frustrated alot of the time LOL .... For example at the moment i have a partner and to get a bit more S-- i am exploring my bi-side and have been seeking a female for fun as my partner doesnt mind me doing this...

Do you think thats just me? or have other BBW also find they have S-- drives??

Not at all. I have found through dating BBW women that their S-- drive and expertise and passion, far outstrips a "normal" woman

[vixen72]

I agree with previous posts. I have a very high S-- drive which surprises my friends! I have caused asthma attacks in men that hadn't had em in years oops! I am not sure why always thought it was just me, but the whole hormone theory makes sense. I am only 190 pounds so am not an ssbbw but am sure that this applies to me. Its very frustrating coz I have been single for a long time but i am still waiting to find a guy who can keep up with me!!!

[staceinga_PREV (deleted)]

I too have a larger S-- drive than most. I have worn out every single man I have ever been with! Its almost like once I got to a good place with my self esteem, off I went...lol :D

[phatbottomgurl1_PREV (deleted)]

Thank god for these posts!! I have always just thought I was wierd! I have never found a man that can keep up with me and I have even tried younger men.

[techsup (deleted)]

I myself as a man of 37 have a high S-- drive. And I do understand the frustration that you are speaking of. I want and need it often that it has annoyed my partners in the past. For me i think it is the part of touching and caressing that thrills me so. My partners have mainly been BBW either one color or the other and I have noticed that their drive would waver on the times of the year. (I found the skinnies of the world lacked stamina and were just really annoying). I also found a BBW ------ to be much more powerful, and full of energy which showed that they love and passion was real.

TechSup

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[shellmama_PREV (deleted)]

my S-- drive is out of control!!!...I can do it like all night long,wether i am with a man or a woman the more i get the more i want it

[robbinsteel (deleted)]

I was reading your posts and just wanted to say this, I was dating an Ex-escort and I was giving her all the S-- she needed. Now I don't know if her S-- drive is as big as you girls but if it is then you can come and talk to me because then I'll handle it from here. lol!

ROBBIN STEELE

[ssandsexygirl (deleted)]

I also have a extemely high S-- drive. I want it all the time.If i dont get constantly, I go into withdrawal mode and its not a good feeling.
Im so glad to find out Im not the only one who needs it.
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