Do women truly like BHM?

[bigfluff11]

Well do they? Because where I live I am having no luck with relationships because I am big. And I have even been told that the reason they wouldn't date me is because of my size. I thought women liked big guys, to feel all protected or whatever. I am so confused

RSO

[rosebudsagirl89]

`deffinately. I love big guys. It might be the long hair though.

[thelonelydoctor (deleted)]

`Right with you there buddy. Statistically men are more into dating BBW than women dating BHM. And I'm sorry to say some BBW's don't want to date BHM and vice-versa. In my case the majority of the people I've know here that have shown interest in me (at least for a friendship) they are all outside my area. Which now makes me wonder if it's easier that way, cause they know chances that we meet in person are slim (pun intended). But don't give up, don't lose hope and be happy for who you are.

The Doctor.

[toucherpudge (deleted)]

`Heck yeah!

[misskait]

`Well personally I'm not really attracted to thin men. I prefer my men large and tall. Because yeah, haha, it makes me feel protected.

But readily appearances are just part of it. You have to have a personality that compliments your partner and vise versa... It could be that in some of your instances.

[swf32gtn]

`I've never had a "type" per say. I've dated thin and tall.. large and tall.. medium and tall.. I guess tall is my thing? I'm 5'10.. so yeah.. give it to me TALL!!!!!!!!!!

[hana91 (deleted)]

`I've dated guys with all different body types, but personally I like it when a man has a little bit of weight to him.. makes him more manly!! :)

[3chocobbwkisses]

`i love thicker guys like 240 n up

[ladygamer27 (deleted)]

`i love a chunky guy and if they're taller the better.
I have a friend who i'm attracted, and he's a big guy too. go figure

[ggr1972 (deleted)]

*reads all this*

well at 6'5 320ish may at least warrant a look or two maybe....possibly

[simplysouthern9]

`I personally love BHM and tend to shy away from anything but. I want someone who can hold there own with me! But yes I have noticed most of the people are not generally close.

[lacielablue (deleted)]

`I myself as a larger woman am more attracted to thin men, but I also am attracted to a Man with a stronger build not bhm but smaller, not necessarily all muscle but not all fat either. I like being with a Man I can feel could handle a women like me. I was once with a bhm but having a Bbw and a bhm together during --- is not much a good idea, because if his d--- isn't of larger size it's hard to get much of it ,with all the fat in the way.

[cookinbubbles]

`None of you guys are in my age range but if I were younger, I certainly would not mind a bhm.
One thing I notice right away is a mans smile. I don't care if that man is an Adonis or ugly as a mud fence, he better have a smile.
Both the original poster and the 2 gentlemen that responded to this question look like they are heading for a funeral.
A smile costs nothing and lights up a face like nothing else.
Please, please, smile. If you look at lots of the mens photos on this site, few really smile. Trust me, looking like you lost your last friend does not make you look handsome, or dangerous or sexy. It makes you look sad and morose.
Smile guys!

[ggr1972 (deleted)]

`hello? echo...echo....echo

[bigboobinspectr]

`I agree its much harder for a BHM to get a woman than its is for a BBW or even a SSBBW to get a man. Most women (I stress here not all for fear of getting lynched) seem to want the washboard stomach and the six pack. Unfortunately some of us are not genentically gifted in that way and we are who we are.