New Here

[southernlove85]

Thought I would write and say hello. I am new here and am looking to start some new friendships and maybe something more. I am still checking everything out and trying to figure out how everything works. So please be patient with me.

I would like to make a shout out to all the BBW's! I have seen pics of several of you throughout the forum and every single one of you are beautiful! Don't ever forget it.

It is nice to finally find a cite where I fit in and am accepted for who I am and not what the general public expects me to be. I have never been a thin woman but I have been smaller. Of course, that was before I had children! Haha However, I just recently become comfortable with the skin I am (thanks to a group on FB). I am more comfortable with who I am and my appearance than I have ever been in my entire life.

So this is me! I've come to a life conclusion that people either like me for me or they don't.



"It's important for all types of women to know that you don't have to fit a prototype of what one person thinks is beautiful in order to be beautiful or feel beautiful.... People think, Sexy, big breasts, curvy body, no cellulite. It's not that. Take the girl at the beach with the cellulite legs, wearing her bathing suit the way she likes it, walking with a certain air, comfortable with herself. That woman is sexy. Then you see the perfect girl who's really thin, tugging at her bathing suit, wondering how her hair looks. That's not sexy."

JENNIFER LOPEZ, Readers Digest, Aug. 2003