How many men are on here just to get laid?

[saosinita]

ambambojam wrote: .I agree!!!
I may still be young but im not here to put out with random guys.

I concur

[bigyin1245]

.im not here just to get , laid but if im offerd some it would be rude to say no

[oran]

`Not just looking for sex,but it is a part of any adult relationship.It is not the most important thing but if two people can't work the S-- thing out,forget it.

[funinokc]

`I have done the pretty boy thing, married the pretty boy, divorced the pretty boy...lol. Now I am larger than I used to be but more confident and love the fact that I have reached a time in my life I can say" I don't give a damn" about my size. I love a man thar I can cuddle with and feel comfortable alone with the lights on, lol. Not a man I am afraid I might crush!

[hunebearme]

.Haha yeah i've had the crushables...need that man built to handle all of me

[shandriel]

There are CRAPLOADS of men on these BBW sites lookin for s--...and nothing but s--. Now ..on to the topic this thread has become.

For myself personally I prefer an average to heavy man. I've dated all sizes of guys. Size really is a personal preference. For me, if the man is too slim I feel even more self-concious than I would normally. Give me a man with some meat on his bones as opposed to Anorexic any day.

I do understand where you're comin from tho Moose. LOTS of BBW's think they are gonna find the man of their dreams...who happens to be rich and look like Brad Pitt on these sites. In the real world..there aren't many of those body perfect rich guys out there!

Reality check....nice guys come in all shapes and sizes. Bodies change with time....go for the guy that actually likes you and wants to be with you. Not for the guy thats only here because he thinks because you're a fat girl you're desperate and easy.

[nighthawk2005]

I won't ever have S-- with a woman I'm not married to. So I am definitely not trying to get laid.

[xmissxlaurax]

`I don't think ALL men are here to get laid.

Even if some are..I don't see the problem with that?

[lilmisskitty]

I haven't really encountered that problem much on dating sites. The few I was on, every so often I'd get a guy who I could easily tell was only after s--. As soon as I figured it out, I would put him on ignore or something, and move on, since that was not what I was looking for.

However, not all the men I've come across (on this site and others) were just after some nookie.. considering the day after I signed up for my account here a year ago, I met the man I'm now currently in a relationship and have been for 11 months, and am about to live with.

It's not all bad. =)

Oh, and as to the whole "BBW are only after slim men" thing I see being mentioned, that's quite sad. I'd always been receptive to men of any size, since my hopes were to find someone with the same attitude. Love the person for the worth, & not their girth.

[epitaph_PREV (deleted)]

`90% of men who have contacted me on the multiple sites I am on, immediatly start talking about how pretty I am and what they would love to do with me. It starts off "innocent" like I want to kiss your neck. So I try to politely redirect that conversation to not give them any false hopes. I usually ask them what denomination they are. I usually dont even get a good bye. They completely log off and never send another message. I dont bother sending them one either. I erase them from my messanger list and carry on searching. Im now trying a Christian site. And I get the same responses!! I have met several however that are very polite and Ive been talking on the phone with. They dont go beyond "how are you" conversation. Yes, that is a bit annoying as well. I dont know if they are interested. So I feel more like, being there friends. They are all friends now and I will never date these men. Its rare to find that. Not screwing it up. so where is the inbetween.

[hiwayman (deleted)]

Not Me:)

[sheevaa]

`I'm on another site and almost immediately had to block out "looking for intimate encounter" status and the like. It was crazy, I've never had to do things like that in the real world, let me tell you:P I've also met a lot of really nice guys who haven't mentioned a word about sex, at all.

I don't think people who are looking to get laid are bad people, they should just be more considerate. If someone says specifically on their profile that isn't what they're looking for, time to move on.

To add my .02 to the BBW looking for slim men topic. I'll say that my preference is big teddy bear guys. I like snuggling and feeling secure in their arms and that just doesn't much happen with a guy smaller than me. A lot of what I find though is that smaller guys find me attractive and the BHM don't want anything to do with me.

Such is life! I'll be open to anyone who has the similar interests, and takes the time to get to know me:)

[twistedlilpixie]

I too am very skeptical about anything online. Yet my silly buns keeps coming back for more. In any profile I make online it clearly states I'm in a serious long term realtionship, and that I'm simply online to chat ( cleanly ) and possibly make friends. I also state that I do not cyber, I do not do any "naughty" cam, I don't call or give my number out online. I'm honest and up front. I'm not looking for a fling, or any side action. I love my boyfriend, and wouldn't mess up what we have for some booty.

Also I get guys all the time ( hope I don't sound conceited) from yahoo, myspace, other similar type sites trying to hit on me. Or they randomly message me with se---lly invasive questions, as in " how big are your breasts?" , "are you shaved"", "do you like anal?",etc. and its just tso frustrating. I'm not a prude by any means. However there's a way to go about things. At least ask if I'm open to speak about such private matters. However I'm not going to be willing to speak about such things when just out of the blue they send me a message with such a thing. Or guys trying to add me on myspace because they think I'm "Hot" and "would like to get to know me better". I'm not looking for sex, I don't know how to make it any more clear. Thank goodness for ignore buttons, lol.

However we do have to accept that yes, most people ( men and women) online, even normal sites, not necessarily dating sites, are just looking for some quick sack session. However, even though I'm not that old ( just turned 24 this year) I'm not up for flings or one night stands. I've never been into the whole casual sex, and random flings. I only want to share my body with someone I care about, that cares about me, and not what I can do for them in bed.

I just hope all you BBW and BHM know that you're just as good as the model types. You're all beautiful, as long as you have a good heart and are kind and caring. Also, I myself, don't stick to one type of man ( or woman. yes I'm BI. please don't slam me for it) . I like men of all sizes, races, height, whatever. Its about who he really is inside, and how he treats me that matters.

[ghostdriver (deleted)]

Yeah, I'm here looking for s----l partners. Not a thing wrong with that. I've done the marriage thing and the relationship thing afterwards, thinking that that is what would bring me happiness. I find I am not cut out for it. We have but one life to live and, as I see it, personal happiness is probably the closest thing to a realistic and realizable goal one can have. I find, at present, that I prefer dating with S-- relationships so that is what I am after. I am honest and upfront in my profile and I do not bother women who speak of wanting only a serious longterm relationship.

We are all different.

Some of us want monogomy and some of us don't.

ce'st la vie

[sheevaa]

`You're awesome ghostdriver. Honest about what you want and not bugging people who aren't looking for the same. If only all people looking for --- relationships could be so considerate:)

As an aside, that's quite possibly the coolest video I've seen in quite a long time.