fat fetish

[sheevaa]

*cracks whip, jiggles fat*

hehe, sorry, couldn't resist:P

[daddysdddgirl]

sheevaa wrote: *cracks whip, jiggles fat*

hehe, sorry, couldn't resist:P



I almost can't breathe! I'm laughing so hard today!

Honestly, if a fat ------ goes to far, it's not fun. As with any fetish, too much of a good thing can kill the mood and/or relationship. A woman, and probably a man as well, wants to feel admired, loved and cared for as a person, as well as for the body he/she came in. A fat ------ encounter has made me feel quite sexy and desired before. But when a man starts to harass you about your actual number, and encourages you to eat more, or discourages you to work out or lose weight you might want to step back and think for a second... it's still YOUR body, whether he gets off to it or not. His ------ can't cloud your better judgment just because he wants you "fluffier". Overall I'd say I enjoy the ------ with caution.

[easystreetimage (deleted)]

`I like women of all sizes. Although I dont know if one could call it a "fetish", I do like BBW women in part because they have the curves and softness that smaller, bonier women dont have. I sure get more out of hugging and holding a larger woman than a skinny one. Those things feed into the larger picture of a man feeling like he has woman he can share mutual love and support with. But if she has a good diet and exercise lifestyle and wants to control her weight, I'm all for it because it is the healthy thing to do.

[tnbecca]

`Fetishes are fine as long as it involves me. I dont know if I could ever "squash" someone, I have gotten invites to to that. Its up to the person I guess. I would LOVE someone jiggling my fat, LOL!

[xbubblyx]

I'm not sure if it's the same as what you're meaning, but my partner likes putting his hand on my stomach during --- and just sitting around. He gropes and pokes but its not his main concern either. He sees it like b--bs and booty from what I understand. It used to make me uncomfortable until I realized that it he was showing appreciation- not exactly a fetish. Or atleast what I consider a fetish. Now, if he was turning our bedroom into a circus and was demanding I shake and jiggle while he makes me feel like a joke, then that's totally different. When I told him not to grab me, he looked rejected. The only argument he made was that I shouldn't be insecure about it. And I did personal research on fetishes and judged in my mind what was crossin the line for me. He never crossed that line since I've become okay with it and since I've let that insecurity go away, we tried and enjoyed a lot more.

At the same time, everyones different as to what they believe is crossing the line. In the end, its about what you want to do with your partner. If its too much, your partner should respect that. But if it something naughty that you both enjoy, then by all means enjoy it together.

(sidenote: I made this account a long time ago for dieting help and after a while just used it to check out the boards every so often. So that's why I'm here. Lol)

[italianfa1 (deleted)]

`I date very large women exclusively (not a fetish) and find it extremely appealing to be squashed and smothered. It is imperative that my partner also enjoys that sort of thing and that way it is supper fun. There has to be trust and you have to be comfortable with your partner first.

Hugs

[bigbuckhunter (deleted)]

`I noticed a post on the previous page by a lady who was worried that her boyfriend or husband would only love her if she stayed fat. What if she lost weight? Would her man become disinterested in her --------? Well, probably. But on the other side of the coin, if your man only liked very thin women and you gained 40+ lbs, would he still be as -------- excited?

Its a very controversial subject. However, a person that is in love with you will continue to be in love with you despite changes to your outside body, because it is the person on the inside that they are in love with.

However, it would be unfair to expect your --- life to be as good as it used to be when you are less attractive -------- to your partner.

It is my opinion that when in a relationship, a man and a woman should be able to conform to the others ideal fantasy, at least in the bedroom. I have a very muscular, lean body, because my girlfriend loves that shape. Personally, I would enjoy gaining a few pounds, but she would not find that attractive. So I make that sacrifice. I think she looks beautiful at her weight, and could afford to gain more. She wants to lose a little or maintain. However, she remains at her current weight and even purposely gains on occasion because she knows it excites me.

In a long term relationship, it is all about compromise and a little bit of sacrifice. If a couple cannot compromise, the relationship will not last.

Sorry for the rant. I hope this message revives the topic. :)

[kranberie]

`Personally, I have this ------ to the extreme. It's hard, though, because you don't want to make the other uncomfortable. And even harder when you desperately want to know if it's okay, but don't want to offend them, or weird them out by asking "hey, is it okay if I bury my face in your big, soft belly?"

[sarahev]

`Though it would be awesome to be with someone who appreciates my body, I do not want to be considered a "fetish". I'm not sure if that really makes any sense lol.

[ohioniceguy0124 (deleted)]

`i dream of enjoy eatting a big girl out cuz to me i think big girls are better... but its a dream itll nv happen.. girls hate me for some reason..