bbw's seem to equal easy lay...

[sinkrin (deleted)]

Interesting topic this. I've dated girls or all sizes & creeds so don't discriminate against a particular group. I do however have friends who would never date a larger lady just because of what others might think. It doesn't help with the annorexic standard of beauty the media seems to portray.
The stereotype of big girls being better in bed is also nonsense. Weight is no substitute for technique

[moonfairyshadow (deleted)]

Guys just don't want sex, and they get this distorted image from it, they want the same thing women want, but in different order.

Guys want great sex, that grows into companionship and love.

Women want companionship and love, that grows into great s--.


The problem with women complaining that all guys that have S-- with them were just out for sex, is because they never put in the effort to create the companionship and love. They did the wham bam thank you Dan thing and then expected the guy to continue doing 100% of all the seduction work, because, well, he's the guy (ug, wrong).

If you want a relationship that is just more than S-- with guys, you need to put in the work to not only seduce him, but to make him fall in love with you and like to be around you.

Men, on the other hand, get this shafted position where they end up sweet talking and lying to make the illusion of love, so they can get past a woman's requirement of love first so they can get sex, and then if the woman doesn't put in any effort into it, it falls apart. Which is equally stupid and these jerks also are doing nothing but to destroy the commons.


What I say you do, is meet on equal ground find someone who will build both at the same time. Love and companionship and S-- all in equal amounts, so everyone is happy. Girls stop being so frigid, and guys, stop believing in this bull---- crap in your head that you're some kind of player. A real relationship with one person is SO much more fulfilling than a dozen empty relationships for S-- only that leave you feeling more lonely than when you began.


Myself, I believe people just don't get along for very long. Several world wars have proved that. Everybody, including your friends leave you in the end, and human relationships are the most ephemeral and fragile things in the world. I once joked I could place a rock out in my yard, the cornerstone of a building, and it would last longer in that place and stay put than any of my dating relationships :-/