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laocgirl24 (deleted)
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Posted: Post subject: not running....again. |
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Where to start, I met someone on here more than a year ago. We talked for a good two months but then he started talking about coming down from Canada to see me and I got really scared, panicked and ran away, just disappeared on him. I went through a really bad relationships and decided to try to right my wrong, I reached out to him but only to apologize and give myself a little peace of mind. After that apologetic email in mid-december we have been talking almost everyday. The day is set for him to come down to meet me, June 21. But now I find myself panicking again and just wanting to call everything off. I really like the guy but I guess all my insecurities are getting the best of me. I keep thinking "what if he doesn't like me." takes one look at me and decides I'm not what he pictured, we've exchanged plenty of pictures and done Webcam but it's still not the same! And I feel like my insecurities are getting the best of me. I need some encouragement...has anyone on here gone through something like this?
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quirkykitty (deleted)
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`Just go for it! The worst that can happen is that you'll go back to square one, and chances are that he genuinely likes you for you, and not just because he "pictured" something else. The cool thing about meeting and talking online like this is that they get to know you first, before they get to judge you based on your appearance.
Besides, you're a very pretty girl, and you need to be more confident in yourself. I'm sure that things will be fine, and you'll be so happy when you finally get to meet him in person.
I've gone through this before, and I agree, it is pretty terrifying, but you won't regret it. Guaranteed. ^.^
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