why...

[plaincaketastic]

Does every guy I talk to online start out nice then turn into h---- cybersex junkies? Is this a thing? Does my picture seem too ----ty?

[spiceandspice]

`do you have another pic besides the cartoon one here? I tried viewing your profile but I didn't see one...?

ok, so if the above answer is "no" and that is your only pic then lolol....that was funny....no I don't believe your pic seems ----ty

if yes then I can't see it to judge...

a lot of men (not all, or even most) do get online to get their jollies....every now and then you'll meet one that not only wants to get his jollies, but wants to get to know you too....those aren't so bad :)

[ggr1972 (deleted)]

`short answer? some of my fellow men are idiots. lol

[timisthewizard (deleted)]

Ive had that happen with women as well, i started chatting, say the wrong thing and they take is as flirty and s----l, not sure what else to say other than keep your convos close to the point and try not to say something that someone slaved to their genitals will misconstrue as "oooh this person is naughty roflololol".

[freshbouquet]

`I don't think I'm wrong. But I got on here to find someone descent because "mainstream" dating sites don't much like BBWs. Yet on this site it seems about 80 percent of the men just want to have s--. It's disappointing to me.

[zykta (deleted)]

`Hiya

Just came across your post and thought i would comment .. i totally agree with your comment ,,, i thinks its just the whole internet now people can be who the want to be ,,, and its very hard to find decent people .. but am sure there is some out there .... just gotta keep on looking

[desertroseoftx (deleted)]

`I've been using this site for a month or so and have met some pretty decent sounding guys but you are right, most of them right away want me to private mssg them or they give me their txt # right away, I mean come on who does that, to a perfect stranger. But this does not mean that I have given up hope. Don't know if sites like these really help you find a good mate or a good man for that matter but at least it give you a way to make new friens and contacts if nothing else. Don't give up hope and just be careful and the only advice I can give you is to set your boundaries with the guy you start talking to first.. this way its like an old fashion meter, if the guy is decent and likes you, he will stick around ot get to know you, if he doesn't and all he wants is cyber nookie (which in my opinion is joke and so unfulfilling it's not even funny) then at least you know he wasn't worth or time or effort, good luck :)

[thisisme2at (deleted)]

`Funny topic because I'm a man and I had women do the same thing before. If the lady contacting does not take the time to at least write a few times them I don't usually take them seriously. I have offered an IM or email because some ladies I've encountered may not be online a lot or they're on the go a lot too. This does not always mean that a man or woman wants "cyber nookie". I usually go by the way the lady writes me to begin with. If it doesn't seem like they even read my profile because nothing from my profile was mentioned or they are only going strictly by my pictures then this is someone that I would be wary of. Certain messages are a red flag to me like "hey baby", "you're hot", a cut and paste message anyone's name could be put on(that's a possible scammer), a message too brief like "hey there" or "what's up" or even a profile with a lot of contradictions. Not all men and women are bad, but one should always look for the signs and be alert .