Celibacy

[meghan91]

I'm trying to stay celibate until I'm married, but it seems that any guys that are attracted to me refuse to wait or only want to be with me because I'm chunky or it seems like they want to trick me into having --- with them. I know there are guys out there that are also committed to staying celibate until marriage but I've yet to find any that are interested in me or any other women shaped like me...Do guys expect all fat girls to put out? And how do you continue a lasting relationship without sex?

[faust666]

`I tried my hardest to stay celibate, god i passed out on some really hot guys. I never even kissed any of them, till i meet this one guy. Were still together and hes the only one that iv given myself completely after 2 yrs of just ---. I let him know that im gonna stop that and just ait till marriage, he was or course a bit mad. But we get along well together we love each others company. He has learned to behave him self.
Trust me if the guys willing to listen to what you want and stick around it well worth making him wait for it. Shows his commited to the relationship with you not just the ---.
The problem today is that more & more people are saying yes to --- early in the relationship.

[jessicavm04]

faust666 wrote: `
The problem today is that more & more people are saying yes to --- early in the relationship.



exactly!!!! i think that's the big problem in today's society and i guess the fact of being big guys think we are desperate to have --- or something...come on? we are not animals that go with their instinct coo keep their kind growing....we have the ability to make choices with our head and not with our body... im a virgin but im a very ------ person and sometimes im tempted to take offers but then i remember whats worth more for me...the bodies desire? or my self-respect, i love to learn about the human body, hormones and all that and sometimes when i start talking ppl think the opposite of me...I would really love to find a guy that would wait for me and i still have the hope that he will come one day.... i don't think is pretty for a girl to say oh I've slept with 10,20, 30 guys and then a guy to say hes been with x's amount of girls i find it disgusting!!

[chazzc1980 (deleted)]

`You know what, kudos to those of you who stay celibate...I wish I had waited to be honest with you, as I've grown older and a bit wiser I have learned that --- doesn't make a relationship...to me trust, communication, and loyalty to name a few are much more valuable. I would rather have a truly intimate connection on an intellectual level over a ------ connection. Don't get me wrong, I think --- is an important part of a relationship and creating a bond to one another but let's face it, as we get older the --- life will eventually fade but a solid relationship built on love, understanding, and friendship can last forever.