Friends with benefits

[princessofpink]

What do you think about a friends ---- -------- relationship? Do you think it's possible to have it work out for both sides? Is it something you're opposed to for moral reasons? Do you think that it's okay between two consenting adults? Under what circumstances would you be willing to be involved in an FB relationship?

[bbwtoy]

I see nothing wrong w\ it as long as both can handle it .. I actually was involved in one for years; We tried the "going out" thing and a relationship but soon realized we couldn't get along that way, but as --- we were each others best friend and had fun.

[torontoredhead_PREV (deleted)]

If two adults can work out an arrangement between themselves, I think it's fantastic. As for me I've tried it and I find it very difficult to keep from becoming emotionally attached to the person I'm boinking.

Jazzy Jane
We don't see things as they are, we see things as we are. ~~Anais Nin~~

[princessofpink]

If you're emotionally attached can you really just call it "boinking?"

torontoredhead wrote: As for me I've tried it and I find it very difficult to keep from becoming emotionally attached to the person I'm boinking.

[honee_PREV (deleted)]

[quote="princessofpink"] can you really just call it "boinking?"

ummm...she could probably call it something else...but I dont think you can say that on here...I think boinking is fine.

Honee
Just your mean and nasty somewhat sarcastic and blind senior citizen!!

[sweetnezz_PREV (deleted)]

I believe any kind of relationship is possible with communication.

Lay your cards on the table and there can be no misunderstandings.

Great question.

[torontoredhead_PREV (deleted)]

Oooooooooooooooooo Sweetnezz ... don't you look hot!!


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Yeah, boinking isn't a term I would normally use -- just thought I'd throw it out there -- test the --- waters again. Nope -- still feel the same way, lol.



Jazzy Jane
We don't see things as they are, we see things as we are. ~~Anais Nin~~

[jam221319atyaho_PREV (deleted)]

I'm in a sexless relationship and I need to look for a friend. I think talking about it first. Both people need to know that it is only for the sex

[hippyhound (deleted)]

I use to have a great friend years ago and every now then we would spend the odd night together and new it was for the moment.
The only danger is if one person crosses the line and falls in love then it gets messy.

[adesireable (deleted)]

My honey has prostate cancer and has not been able to have an erection for 2 years. I love him and he pleases me in other ways, but I need more. friends ---- -------- (specifically one understanding, -------- friend) is all I need to get by! Any takers in Houston? Email me at (removed).

[springmill]

--- is an ok proposal but people say that emotions will come into play after it happens a few times. As a divorced guy I think it's a novel idea and would welcome it, but you know how guys are. I respect women enough to have them tell me that's the point at which they are satisfied with before asking them to commit to something like that.

[sthrndelight_PREV (deleted)]

i had a --- relationship for over a year and yes feelings do come into play...i fell in love with him and knew upfront he didn't want a commitment and probably never would but it happened anyway...i mean,its hard to look into the eyes of someone while making love and not care,or it is for me...i guess thats why i can't just have casual sex,its more to me than that...

[funredefined (deleted)]

sweetnezz wrote: I believe any kind of relationship is possible with communication.

Lay your cards on the table and there can be no misunderstandings.

Great question.



I AGREE WITH YOU ENTIRELY ON THAT -- COMMUNICATION IS THE KEY ... BUT THEN I REMEMBER ONE WOMAN WHO FELL FOR ME AND WANTED MORE THAN FB ... SHE WANTED A RELATIONSHIP WITH ME ONLY ... WE STILL SEE EACH OTHER !

[lonelynbama_PREV (deleted)]

as far as --- no i couldnt handle it ... i have been married for 9 years and for the last 6 years maybe even longer, i have had to go without. ive only stepped out 5 times in those years. but realize i was younger and in need. lol but ive come to learn theres much more that i want and need than just ---. how ive managed hell i just dont know. my feelings have come in to one of those partners and i got hurt. so untill i find my life partner --- is out of the ? for me .....

[lesseninmercies_PREV (deleted)]

My last --- broke my heart. Unless you can be emotionally detached, it may be better to stay away.