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daddysdddgirl
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Joined: November 20, 2010
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Being bigger, it's hard for me to tell if a man is checking out my curves or just looking at me in pity. How do BBW admirers show women that they like what they see? Is it the same as any ol' guy checking out any ol' girl or are there specific signs? Help me identify my local BBW lovers!
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`I certainly can't tell for others but in my case it's probably the same as other guys check out women in general. So the very first thing that happens is eye contact or at least I try to have eye contact with her. If she replies and we both smile I walk to her and start talking to her. From this point on I'm pretty sure people can tell if I'm checking out her curves. Of course staring is the worst thing you can do so if the guy knows what he does he'll rather look into her face most of the time but once in a while lets his eyes wander around on her cleavage, her bum and the rest of her body. And if he smiles and you get the feeling that he feels comfortable you will surely notice that he likes what he sees.
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`Speaking as an ol'guy. If I was to meet you IRL, I would wait while constently looking at your fine body, untill we made eye contact ant then I would softly smile and nad my head as if to greet you and that would also show I did admire your looks. If you then reciprocated in kind I would walk over to strike up a conversation right there, thou I am shy to a fault I do try to reach out to ladies and sometimes fall flat on my face. but I still get right back up and move on.
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`I would have to agree. An admirer would probably make eye contact. Someone who was pitying you or thinking something negative would probably be embarrassed to make eye contact. Try judging their smile to see if its genuine or not.
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daddysdddgirl
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`Sage advice, you guys. Many thanks!
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`In your case I would make eye contact with you right away because i would be attracted to your beautiful face. I would give you a smile and then i would check out your chest and look you over. then I would go over to you and talk to you.
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`No problem, I like doing what I can to help out. Especially for a pretty lady like yourself : ) I know I would appreciate any help from anyone if I was in need.
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daddysdddgirl
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`Boy oh boy! Is it getting hot in here? *fans self* lol you guys are giving me a big head!
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`lol Who asks shall receive an answer. I just hope our advice helped you a little.
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`I know this is an old post but I just had to comment because I too have a really hard time figuring out if I'm being checked out or checked over lol. I'm glad I stumbled upon this so now I know what to look for You guys rock!
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terrybogard23
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Joined: September 22, 2009
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cgguitar2010 wrote: `I would have to agree. An admirer would probably make eye contact. Someone who was pitying you or thinking something negative would probably be embarrassed to make eye contact. Try judging their smile to see if its genuine or not.
LOL i hate fake smiles! lol
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terrybogard23
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Joined: September 22, 2009
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fatuglyguy wrote: `Speaking as an ol'guy. If I was to meet you IRL, I would wait while constently looking at your fine body, untill we made eye contact ant then I would softly smile and nad my head as if to greet you and that would also show I did admire your looks. If you then reciprocated in kind I would walk over to strike up a conversation right there, thou I am shy to a fault I do try to reach out to ladies and sometimes fall flat on my face. but I still get right back up and move on.
i agree that i am a shy guy so it makes things alittle difficult.LOL i do love it when the BBW talks to me though because then it is a good opener.i check her out from a distance,if we make eye contact i do the signature "smile and nod" then go on from there.you can kinda feel or tell if the woman wants to engage in conversation or something.lol being shy does sometimes back fire on you.sometimes you just don't know how to approach or what would be a good ice-breaker.lol
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mrkitty
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`I' m the shy guy i study your body briefly from the corner of my eye. I usually look then look away that's just me.
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