When did dating become so complicated?Is it the net?

[tallbbw73 (deleted)]

Hi,
I'm a double whammy of tall and ssbbw so... to find someone I'm attracted to that is relatively close to my height (6'1 without heels) is already difficult. I don't oppose to shorter guys either so this is not the issue.

In my personal experiences whether voluptuous or now ssbbw, I find that the men in Toronto and GTA, are wishy washy, play far too many games and exhibit this behavior of uncertainty with something as simple as a date. (I don't date women so I could only speak of men.)
I get the guy that tries to dive in and form an instant relationship which doesn't work with me as next week, he's onto someone new. Or the guy that thinks that if you want to see him again, it's pressure to have a relationship.

When I spent time in NYC, I had less of a hard time discerning what someone wanted and dealt with a very straightforward attitude. It was clear.
What am I missing here? Is it the people on these websites?



Lost in Tdot

[fatuglyguy (deleted)]

tallbbw73 wrote: Hi,
I'm a double whammy of tall and ssbbw so... to find someone I'm attracted to that is relatively close to my height (6'1 without heels) is already difficult. I don't oppose to shorter guys either so this is not the issue.

In my personal experiences whether voluptuous or now ssbbw, I find that the men in Toronto and GTA, are wishy washy, play far too many games and exhibit this behavior of uncertainty with something as simple as a date. (I don't date women so I could only speak of men.)
I get the guy that tries to dive in and form an instant relationship which doesn't work with me as next week, he's onto someone new. Or the guy that thinks that if you want to see him again, it's pressure to have a relationship.

When I spent time in NYC, I had less of a hard time discerning what someone wanted and dealt with a very straightforward attitude. It was clear.
What am I missing here? Is it the people on these websites?



Lost in Tdot
I can't see why others haven't jumped on here to abswer your rather strightforward question. I have had a few bad experiences with demanding women. whether it was because they were previously hurt or they were just demanding one can't say but it made me a bit leery to date another woman. I am not looking for a lover but if I find one well that's something else. I seek companionship nothing ------ but still women associate men with ---- minded fools. one can not be seperated from the other. Now I can't say that there are nice men in Toronto, but I'll bet you can find some real men on here it's just a matter of getting one to be truthful and open up to you. for some reason it seems that a lot of PUNKS are so insultive they think its a game to pull on all ladies. I find it tackless and inhuman. but then that's just my opinion.