Closet BBW lovers

[pharadox]

`If you think about it, anyone who is in the closet is insecure with who they are. Someone like that can't possibly be living their life to the fullest. Why should we let someone who isn't even happy with their own life affect our own happiness? We shouldn't.

I remember the first time I realized there were men out there who actually desired heavier women and without shame. I asked my ex why he was with me because at that point I honestly didn't know why he wanted me and he told me flat out that he liked skinny girls and heavier girls too, as plain as that, completely unashamed. He told me constantly that I was beautiful with this awed and reverent look in his eyes. It was a shock to my system and was what I believe to be the beginning of my journey to accept and come to love my body.

There are those guys out there. Unfortunately there are the closeted kind too. And there are the cruel and inhumane ones that like to try to stomp all over you for what you look like because it doesn't conform to what they think you should look like. Know what you want and what you deserve and ignore the rest because, as a person, you're worth more than to be used and abused.

[sadisticsimba (deleted)]

Closet bbw lovers are simply one thing: still high-school minded, they are worried about what other people think of them, and how they present themselves, who theyre dating, sounds alot like highschool to me. They are nothing but little boys, who are simple minded and idiotic. I would advise advoiding people who are not willing to take you public places, to meet their family, to hang out with their friends, these are all classic signs of these boys, and they will use you and use you until they are bored with you.

A MAN that PREFERS bbws would not be embarassed to take you anywhere. These little boys make me sick because they're giving real bbw admirers are bad name.

Sadistic Simba

[moulinrouge (deleted)]

I feel like these kinda of guys are cowards! If I liked or even loved somebody I would be proud to walk with them in public. There is no way in hell that I would hide them. It's just not how I am! If you want to be with me...Be with me for who i am and for nobody else and Be proud of it. Otherwise don't even bother cause it's not worth my time! Sorry if I was harsh.... :oops:

[xohethrr]

moulinrouge wrote: I feel like these kinda of guys are cowards! If I liked or even loved somebody I would be proud to walk with them in public. There is no way in hell that I would hide them. It's just not how I am! If you want to be with me...Be with me for who i am and for nobody else and Be proud of it. Otherwise don't even bother cause it's not worth my time! Sorry if I was harsh....


Hunnie I couldn't have said it any better. If you're gonna be with me, be with me because of WHO I AM. Don't be ashamed of me.

I think all women are beautiful. Skinny, fat, in-between, tall, short, whatever! People judge too quickly.

- Heather.

[dcl650]

`My parents and friends have seen my taste in women. I would not change what I enjoy just because it did not fit their tastes. All my friends eat McDonald's, and I think it sucks, but I do not eat there with them just because they all do it. It is just not my taste. That and there is no way that I can hide my enjoyment when I see a well filled-out pair of jeans. It just makes me too damn happy.

[natashana]

dcl650 wrote: `My parents and friends have seen my taste in women. I would not change what I enjoy just because it did not fit their tastes. All my friends eat McDonald's, and I think it sucks, but I do not eat there with them just because they all do it. It is just not my taste. That and there is no way that I can hide my enjoyment when I see a well filled-out pair of jeans. It just makes me too damn happy.
You've made me start craving McDonald's now.
But, on topic: I've dealt with dillholes like this too. Recently actually. Some men (and women) need to just grow up, be themselves, and not worry obout what other people think. Ah. Wouldn't that world be nice?!

[dcl650]

natashana wrote:
You've made me start craving McDonald's now.




NOOOOOOO! There are so many better places to get a burger and fries. I need to show you the light.

[sizei (deleted)]

dcl650 wrote: natashana wrote:
You've made me start craving McDonald's now.




NOOOOOOO! There are so many better places to get a burger and fries. I need to show you the light.



Even for a better price too :)

[dcl650]

sizei wrote: dcl650 wrote: natashana wrote:
You've made me start craving McDonald's now.




NOOOOOOO! There are so many better places to get a burger and fries. I need to show you the light.



Even for a better price too



No, not for a better price, but I will pay so I can return thee back to the path of righteousness.

[fatuglyguy (deleted)]

`How'd we move from closet cases to burger joints....lol

[simplyfran (deleted)]

Being bigger gives me kind of low self esteem & if he treated me like that It would only make It worse.
Theirs closet BBW in my school, they wouldn't give me time of day (which I don't need), but would serenade me through Facebook or being closed doors. That's irritating, and pretty dumb. Why hide? I'd rather be single than be in a closeted relationship.

[inthekeyoflove]

`There was a guy that lived in my building who would always happen to be leavin out whenever I was. He chatted my ears off, told me I was beautiful and I had the most perfect womanly shape...He was HILARIOUS so I befriended him. One day I was comin in and he was walking out with A cute little lady woman, he let her go to the car and said he had to go back in to get somethin, she said "Ok Baby" before she walked out they kissed. Im like.. nice one Hot-Shot and he goes "I want that to be you...but, you know how it goes...You arent huge but youre A pretty thick girl, not what my friends are used to" -_-

[brentm1987]

`Wow... what a jackass. I can't believe someone would actually say that to you. Goes to show you what kind of guy he is.

Honestly, bigger girls shouldn't have low self esteem. Sure, I understand why you or anyone does. But some guys really view it as a positive, for starters. And a guy should really like someone for who they are. Personally, I view larger women as attractive. But that would never be a factor for me, ever. I wouldn't be embarrassed to have a bigger girlfriend, nor to have her around my friends. If anyone wants to say anything about it, say it to my face.

Next time any of you feel you're not attractive, just remember that there are a big group of people who would love to disagree :)

[alitaangelis (deleted)]

I've met a guy or two that wanted to stay close to bedroom. But not because they were closet BBW lovers. It was because they thought I was an easy lay or a cheap date. Fortunately I never gave up the goods.

And they just fade away. Some of the guys on this site only want a peep show. They say they're up for chatting but it has to be with your webcam on. Dude! you saw the pics on my profile right! Sometimes this place feels like its just a freak show.

So now I don't give out my messenger or outside email anymore. If you really want to talk to me, then you will TALK to me. Yes it's a slow process with the ims here and the email notifications, but getting to know someone should take time. It gives me something to look forward to. The next letter that shows a piece of who you are. KNOWING a person is a privilege.

Ok I'm rambling now so I'll stop here.

[seagnome (deleted)]

alitaangelis wrote: Yes it's a slow process with the ims here and the email notifications, but getting to know someone should take time. It gives me something to look forward to. The next letter that shows a piece of who you are. KNOWING a person is a privilege.


Exactly!