A Thought from a Man

[musicchef]

Hey Ladies! I just want to tell all of you how beautiful you are, and to NEVER be ashamed of your size! The whole super skinny thing is media BS!!! Most men do prefer bigger women over really skinny ones! The thing is, most men are afraid to admit it because they fear what their friends will think. I used to be that way in high school. Now, with age and maturity, I no longer care what my men friends think. I know that secretly they to are craving to be with a BBW! So, ladies, feel good about yourself, because the truth is, curves are sexy again! In fact, they never left being sexy. They always have been, it's just that people prefer to hide behind lies and be accepted rather than stand up for the truth!

While the media has seriously hurt a lot of BBW, it has also given them a blessing in disguise. That blessing is that it has kept them humble. When a BBW finally decides to believe in herself and have confidence, she does so without acting stuck up! A lot of super skinny women not only have confidence, but they act stuck up about it...and that's very repulsive to a man. However, when I see a woman who is confident, yet humble about it... that is such a turn on!!!

So ladies, feel good about yourself!! Believe in yourself!! Us men do see you and want you!!! This thanksgiving I am thankful for BBW and the black yoga pants that bring out their curvy bottoms;) jk

[2findu (deleted)]

Yup, he's right about that!

[anainthestars (deleted)]

`thank you for the messages on the forum...I was having a bad day and that totally made me feel better

[ladydsc]

`Thanks musicchef=) your post made me smile!

[southernfinery]

`could you repeat that pls and I dare you no I double dog dare you to say it on a radio show or send it to the new york times or washington post.How about emailing playboy with this same statement and include your pic pls.On here it's real easy to say that but out amongst mixed company is where it counts the most.

[vikingwolfie (deleted)]

`you get me the email addys and i will southen as everyone i know know's i only think big girls are sexy i cannot stand them woman that get all that body work done and think there the sh*twhen really there all just fake plastic and wire lmao like a model car kit and any man that thinks thats hot is shallow and not worth your time to begin with

[southernfinery]

`ok viking here is the editors email addy at the new york times ---(removed) (212)556-7652.The email for playboy isn't obtainable by googling but the mailing addy is so here it is, 10236 Charing cross road Los Angeles CA, 90024-1815 c/o hugh hefner

[lexlovespizza (deleted)]

`this is like the funniest thing ive ever read. that was touching, truely. )

[loneangel (deleted)]

`Nice sentiment, although I dont feel pressure from the media to be anything. The only people that have ever made me feel bad about myself have been ex partners and my ex husband. Southern I agree, its easy to be what you want around like minded people, its a shame that most people dont have the guts to do so in their "real life".

[vikingwolfie (deleted)]

`ty southernfinery
if anyone took my post the wrong way im sry all i meant was that everyone on here is beautiful hope i didnot offend anyone and i will be writing they might not do anything but delete it so please ladies dont let ppl that have to make other ppl feel bad so they can feel good get to you your all beautiful

[kayycee (deleted)]

`Wow, nicely said.

[xbubblyx]

southernfinery wrote: `could you repeat that pls and I dare you no I double dog dare you to say it on a radio show or send it to the new york times or washington post.How about emailing playboy with this same statement and include your pic pls.On here it's real easy to say that but out amongst mixed company is where it counts the most.


Agreed, but still, just seeing that a man said that makes me smile a little. But if Playboy did a BBW shoot and dedicated an issue to that, I don't think it would hurt them. I would buy an issue if they did.

[dennene]

musicchef wrote: Hey Ladies! I just want to tell all of you how beautiful you are, and to NEVER be ashamed of your size! The whole super skinny thing is media BS!!! Most men do prefer bigger women over really skinny ones! The thing is, most men are afraid to admit it because they fear what their friends will think. I used to be that way in high school. Now, with age and maturity, I no longer care what my men friends think. I know that secretly they to are craving to be with a BBW! So, ladies, feel good about yourself, because the truth is, curves are sexy again! In fact, they never left being sexy. They always have been, it's just that people prefer to hide behind lies and be accepted rather than stand up for the truth!

While the media has seriously hurt a lot of BBW, it has also given them a blessing in disguise. That blessing is that it has kept them humble. When a BBW finally decides to believe in herself and have confidence, she does so without acting stuck up! A lot of super skinny women not only have confidence, but they act stuck up about it...and that's very repulsive to a man. However, when I see a woman who is confident, yet humble about it... that is such a turn on!!!

So ladies, feel good about yourself!! Believe in yourself!! Us men do see you and want you!!! This thanksgiving I am thankful for BBW and the black yoga pants that bring out their curvy bottoms;) jk



Will you marry me? i love you!
and yoga pants

[purpleheart090 (deleted)]

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[ggr1972 (deleted)]

southernfinery wrote: `could you repeat that pls and I dare you no I double dog dare you to say it on a radio show or send it to the new york times or washington post.How about emailing playboy with this same statement and include your pic pls.On here it's real easy to say that but out amongst mixed company is where it counts the most.






yipes!!! ya know it may be the tiniest bit possible that he was just saying something nice just to be nice.....honest all men are not part of some conspiracy to keep the love for bigger gals a shameful secret, Sure there are a few jerks...but i'm betting there are just as many female jerks too.

And it's not like we bhms are getting a ton of media love, just think of all of the movies and shows that have a big guy as something besides comic relief........not many