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irishangel30
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Why is it so easy for some BBWs to magically find their soulmate while the rest of the BBWs spend half their lives searching for theirs? I mean besides the men either being married or gay.........there has to be atleast one prince charming in the forest of losers? ! Anyone?!
I mean I'm almost 30 and still no such luck. If anyone has an idea or a clue ......please let me know . For all those BBWs who have their Mr. Right keep them close and live happily ever after [/i]
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xraineyx
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`Sometimes Mr Right comes along when your not expecting it, or not looking.
But hey i dont know anything lol
Good Luck :-)
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`I wish I knew the answer to that question....
Personally, when I think about it...it's like...you try not to be jealous or envious, or even depressed!!! But the fact is, EVERYONE needs someone loving them intimately and romantically.
The Truth is....the men with those qualities, are in extreme demand, but are very few in number....so...not everyone get's blessed with that special someone.
....at least that's the way it seems to me
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southernfinery
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`on the chance of being judged condescending let me say that a real man wouldn't be online looking if he were married or engaged.A real man wouldn't have identity issues calling himself bi or gay or curious.A real man wouldn't be looking for a trophy or a brain dead se---lly fantasy.A real man WOULD talk to you politely and with respect for the diffences you possess from each other.A real man WOULD show interest in you as a person without getting all up in your space trying to let you FEEL his worth.A real man would adore you and only you and there would be no doubt in your mind that he only had eyes for you.....Be patient and be diligent in your prayers and be thankful.
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cookinbubbles
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`Dear irishangel, I don't think it has anythign to do with being BBW. The fact is women out number men and so that gives men the advantage of being able to be pickeir that they need to be. Also, look around. There are plenty of thin women who aren't hooked up with a man either.
While men in general are scarce, the forever kind are even scarcer. Society has made a long term relationship a disposable commodity so many men and women go from relationship to relationship, and the bad people leave a trail of broken hearts behind, which makes it that much worse for the next person.
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I feel the same way. I don't get it either. It seems so much harder to find a man in my age group (I'm 23) It seems that for the most part I attract men who are either: A LOT older than I am, closeted about being attracted to bbws, or are just looking for an easy lay (stereotypically bbws are thought of as easy because we're "desperate" which we are NOT [not all of us anyways]), or they live in places I could never find on a map. One would think that in such a big city (philadelphia) I could find someone but it has proven to be very difficult.
But none-the-less I'm going to hang in there and you do the same!!
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`Hey I'm 54 Yrs Old and I'm still lookin'...
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``I totally understand what you mean, and as I get older, it gets harder sadly. My ex husband married me at a size 28, and we seemed to have no issues in our marriage, but the whole time he was on a dating site looking to meet thinner women. Sometimes what you think is Mr.Right just isnt. To flip this topic too, I met 10 months ago a lovely guy online, who did seem perfect for me, and he just owned up lately that he was married. so on reflection, meeting guys online wasnt a great way for me to meet anyone either. I dont drink or find clubbing very interesting so I feel that I have limited options to meet anyone, does anyone have any good ideas?
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Have fun, stop looking, and what and who you need will find you. It's not about your size, it's about what you do with it.
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cookinbubbles
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`ya know, I kind of have to agree with you brunoghia.
It always seems to me that the harder a person looks for something, the more elusive it is.
I figure if I am suppose to meet another love of my life, I will, somewhere.
If not, well then so be it.
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wakened
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`I really like what both brunoghia and cookinbubbles had to say.
I've been constantly getting down about myself because i haven't found that person, and instead of just enjoying life for what it is I'm letting the fact that I don't have anyone to share it with ruin it.
If it's meant to happen, it will happen, right? :)
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cookinbubbles
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`absolutely.
And the interesting thing is, you can end up meeting that special some one in the oddest place.
I don't get too excited about looking because I had my soul mate but he died after 33 years of marriage .
And I met him when I was 16 and he was coming to pick up my best friend because he was dating HER. He was home from the Navy and he didn't know it but she was intending to dump him that night.
She did dump him and 6 months later when he was back on leave again, we met again and to make a long store short, we were married 2 years later.
Like I said, you just never know when you will meet that special someone....
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`this is to southernfinery
i am a real man and im not insalted just wnated to say that my wife is terminally ill and i think for her she will feel better about haveing to leve me behind if she knows i will be taken care of and have somoene in my life that i care for she dont mind having another woman living with us and she wants to know that we will make one another happy sexuly and if it will make her death easyer then i love her enough to do that for her she wanat somene to live with us to get to know one another and yes we would be alowed to have S-- as my wife is not always up for it and anything to make her happy if no one believes me they can ask her for themm self
the funny thing is just the other day i was told i was not good enough for a vary sexy BBW lady on here just becues i have long red hair and dress in jeans and leather jackets never mind i dont drink or do drugs so i kinda think some dont give men a chance maaybe im ugly i donno but im a good man i make 150 doller's an hour as a computer repaair tech and im vary smart i write computer code and im really good with my hands so why no one would want a guy like me i just dont get it anyways im not saying all woman are like that so please no hate mail jk im just saying maybe just take a little time to talk with someone before saying your not good enough for me
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`daydreamer86
i understand about the being older but if a man dont look like a old man is it really a bad thing to alest get to know him i my self dont care is a woman is 50 aslomg as she loves sme and is good to me and yes i understand you do want a 80 year old on your arm and i hate men that think bbw woman are easy my self i find more 90lb girls hitting onme al the time but thats not my cup of tea anyways i think all you ladies are beautifuland any man would be a fool to pass any one of you up
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southernfinery
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`vikingwolfie I can't begin to imagine the heavy load you must be under watching and waiting for your wife to take her last breath.I myself don't think I would be able to even acknowledge another man during this most terrible time.I find my comfort from prayer and it gives me strength in the trying times.I saw a movie once viking about a man that was not able to be with his wife in that most married of ways and he knew when she sought comfort in the arms of their friend.The thing was that he didn't get so down about it.He actually felt relief and this man wound up moving in with them.This man also was dieing and he wanted to make sure she wouldn't be left alone or done wrong by someone playing on her weakness.This guy watched his wife as her eyes began to twinkle when she looked at the other man.She still loved her husband and it was clearly eating her alive waiting on him to die.In a way she was dieing with him and he saw this in her so that is why he did what he did by telling the other guy to move in.I can't say what you should do nor can I try to put myself in your shoes but before you and your wife give up on life please do something for me and hold hands and pray and ask for guidance and strength.I know it seems like such a small thing but viking it is my mainstay.I am praying for you both viking and I am praying for a miracle for u both.gbu .p.s I personally like the shoulder length or the short style.I also like the bald head look on some men, as for leather well hey I don't know a soul that can pass on leather unless it's one of those animal lovers.I am honestly thinking of going to india and opening a mcdonalds and serve veggie burgers only.
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