Voyeurism or cyber

[jd41]

[/b]Would you expose your nude body on cam or pics to entice someone you may be interested in?

[latinladynoc]

Nope! No way... Never!

Call me a prude, but as for me personally, I don't feel as though I need to expose myself, just so some will pay attention me or to "catch their eye"

I'd like to think that a person is attracted to me for who I am as a person. Someone they can share both intelligent and silly conversations with and who enjoys my company and witty personality!

Some things are best left for behind closed doors and shared with that Special someone.

[nekochannya (deleted)]

`It happened back when I was young and stupid... because the person made me mad. yup... and I was in an extremely naughty mood. Look but don't touch kind of thing. A matter of control. It was not to entice him, it was to tease and to punish. I'd met him on the net for a few months. He'd seen me a few times. He liked me a lot, I knew but he was too darn insistant that he wanted to see some of my body. He got his eyeful but that was the last thing he saw because I blocked him. Simple. But that was ages ago and I will not do it again unless I have a relationship and trust established to do so.

[skip454]

.he obvioust lost out on a good thing

[ladyrusty]

`You mean like, "show me yours, and I'll show you mine?" LOL
No, I wouldn't do it for someone I was not already involved with - and sending it over the net could cause repercussions later - not saying I never did; but I won't say I ever will ... again But, if we had a (true) solid relationship, I wouldn't would pose for him - at home ... okay TMI.

[shylagirl24 (deleted)]

`[latinladynoc: "Call me a prude, but as for me personally,....."]

aw. it's pretty sad that we have to feel apologetic and defensive about not letting strangers see us naked via webcam. i mean, think about it! why would that be prudish? why should anyone be considered silly and childish for choosing to retain their dignity by keeping their clothes ON?

i mean, do it if you want, if it's not a big deal to you. but don't apologize NOT doing it. if you do it for any other reason than that you want to and you feel comfortable, then you're letting someone else manipulate you. don't feel bad about it.

i forget all the times men have tried to talk me into doing something along these lines, until i'm reminded of them again. they tried to make me feel immature because i said no, and that really makes me angry, because obviously, my preferences didn't mean anything to them, and they were willing to sacrifice my feelings of comfort and security for their own pleasure.

anyway, i know this is slightly off the original topic, and i'm not accusing the OP of insinuating anything manipulative. i just feel bad when i hear people feeling like they have to make excuses for sticking to something they feel is right (i.e., not taking off their clothes if they don't want to.)

[xtiemywristsx]

It's definitely up to the circumstances for me. I've talked to guys over the internet for weeks (or longer) and we're planning to meet, why not. It's flirty and fun, I feel like being on cam can make you "closer", and build up a deeper level of trust before in person meeting occurs. It's not for everyone, but I suppose it's the exhibitionist side of mine talking for this one :P

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[cookinbubbles]

`nope.
Apparently I am too old fashioned...LOL
What I have to show anyone would be shown only in person because I don't see any point in looking if there isn't touching to go along with that and touching takes being together in person.

[realoopy (deleted)]

`a very common thing with people my age :)

[heatherina]

Suggestive, naughty, lingerie pics? Sure.
Completely nude? Not so much. I'm all about giving hints of the goods but not showing everything. It's a trust/not being quite confident enough type thing.
Plus, I've always been told it's best to leave some things to the imagination, and I've found giving a taste but not the whole package is what works for me.

[fatuglyguy (deleted)]

`I could write a paragraph on the meaning of voyeurism, verses Exhibitionism. but that is not needed here, it is enough to simply say that If a woman chooses to expose herself to a man via webcam then they must be excited enough about each other. I personally don't see the fetsh but then again I don't get asked to view them either.

[southernfinery]

`in most cases,but not all, when you are talked into nudity then you can be persuaded into a little self touching for the voyeur and for the exhibitionist in you.I don't want to alarm anyone but I will tell you that alot of the voyeurs aren't alone in viewing you but will appear as they are which happened to someone I know.This guy persude this young lady and seemed intent on being more then friends online and was adamant in his conviction which is what persuaded this young lady.It was disclosed that what had transpired between her and the young man became easy watching at the time of and afterwards for his true friends.Oddly enough it seems as though the young man wasn't as revealing(if you get my drift).

[lonusfire (deleted)]

hey man...if you like to get down like that, then you should. it can be highly erotic for both parties. as long as the gentleman plays it straight...and its sad to say that a lot of them dont.

and ive always wondered what happened to cybering, noone does it anymore. thats a damn shame.