Where is the line that switches a BBW/BHM to SSBBW/SSBHM?

[cookinbubbles]

Just curious. Noticed the groups search area for the first time(apparently I am dense! ) and saw it there.
For you, where is that line when you become ( or desire) an extra large person?

[londonbbw1969]

`well to begin with Hello, im new to this site xx , i have always regarded myself as a BBW being a size 28-30 but have recently gained weight and am still a 28-30 but now regard myself as a SSBBW , tho not happily x

[andriek]

`I hadn't really thought of it, to me it is all bbw. I kind of don't think there is a difference just because yall would still be bbw no matter what.

[cookinbubbles]

`Now Andriek you are a sweetie and if you don't find someone special, i will be real surprised. Everything I have read that you have siad is sweet and polite.
Anyway, thats what i thought too, I mean, if there is a difference, shouldn't there be a particular poundage or something instead of poor self image. Londonbbw1969 I know what you mean by not being happy about your size but there should be more criteria than just how we see ourselves.
And if there isn't, than, there shouldn't be a special "group" called ssbbw or ssbhm

[andriek]

` Aww, thanks you cookinbubbles. me and mizcurious3 are seeing each other right now. I think there is a ssbbw, but I dunno about ssbhm

[cookinbubbles]

`hey, I looked her up and recognize her from on the forums. i hope all goes well with you 2 kids.
and you are a sweet guy and what I remember of her forum posts she seems like a nice young lady. Good for you!

[andriek]

`Thank you again.

[steviant (deleted)]

`Hey Cookie...are u here?

[steviant (deleted)]

cookinbubbles wrote: Just curious. Noticed the groups search area for the first time(apparently I am dense! ) and saw it there.
For you, where is that line when you become ( or desire) an extra large person?

do U really want an answer to this question?

[mizcurious3 (deleted)]

`Hey! I heard my name! Lol! Thanks cookinbubbles. I thought he was never gonna get a hint! Right, Mr. Shy?

Anyways, I have never seen or heard a poundage stated for a SSBBW group. So I agree with cookin bubbles why is there a special group for them? What makes them different from us?

[andriek]

`lol I know, I was a little dense, and took a while to ask you out my little button

[mizcurious3 (deleted)]

`Button! LMAO! I'll never get tired of that word.

[89shifty (deleted)]

`TBH, I always thought of it as an imaginary scale in ones mind. Eew, I'm thinking too hard, YUCK!

[mizcurious3 (deleted)]

``Haha. Since when is thinking too hard bad?

I just wonder if its more of an appearance scale. Like if people depend on the person's physical to define BBW from SSBBW.

[89shifty (deleted)]

`That makes sense. I mean, if a person thinks they're too big, they're going to put themselves in the SS category, right?

-Not including people with the "Pink highlights look gewd on everyone" mentality, realistic minded people