What Are Women On This Site After?

[ncbear47]

Granted, therre are many lovely BBW and many of us guys (BBW and otherwise) are greatly attracted by them. But what do BBW here seek?
Certainly respect and appreciation and Someone who is proud to be with a her as well as a BBW lover and admirer.

But how many of you ladies are interested in a ------- encounter? Being with a man who enjoys kissing and petting and more?

Are any of you ladies interested in receiving this attention from an attached man who doesn't get his share of such attention at home? You know some men and women have the misfortune of being attached to someone with a completely different ------- appitite.

And are any of you attached large luscious ladies who aren't appreciated at home interested in receiving similar attention from someone else?

Comments would be appreciated.

ncbear47

[princesskimmy73]

`your one of the men who think because we are big we are easy or desperate lol go buy a hooker!or any hood rat in the club a drink!!!!!

[ncbear47]

`Princesskimmy,
As a BHM who has similar problems, I was asking for info. I do not frequent bars or clubs because I'm seeking a sensuous relationship with someONE who is looking for the same type of ------- attention I seek.

[cocoaberryc_PREV (deleted)]

I think many bbws seek what small, medium and other shapes and sizes of women want someone who loves and accepts them and that they can love and accept.

Personally I am seeking a man for friendship and conversation who understands that I can not have a physical relationship with him at this time.

A few years back I dated with the hopes of finding someone who shared my values. But it is a tricky thing to date when you are practicing celibacy (by the way I am a member of celibatepassions.com also).

I am not s----l but very sensuous---often times people are not able to draw the line between the two and for that reason I have been called a "Big Tease" :)

Cocoaberry

[shandriel]

`Sadly there are many men on this site and others like it that are simply looking for an easy s----l experience, believing that because we are ladies of size we are desperate for male attention no matter how we get it. This is not the case for the majority of us. We, like our smaller sisters, are looking for someone to love us, someone who can appreciate the unique beauty of a bbw/ssbbw. Who loves us because of it...not in spite of it. We are not looking for an afternoon of stolen pleasure with an attached man. Most of us...are looking for a real relationship.

[alford59]

.One good man would love to meet a hot, passionate BBW for a serious LTR.

[msmaximus]

I tend to agree with the other ladies on this post. Seems our society has given us BBW a stereotype that is not going to be easy to extinguish. While many of us are wanting something more than a quickie in the back of some guy's car, there are those few who have accepted their choices or are only wanting a bit of satisfaction.
Seems to me that the new fad for so many married men is to have their cake and eat it too by claiming to be in an open relationship when most likely what is going on is simply cheating.
As for myself, I am wanting a man who is much more serious minded, single, and certainly not the one who hides his wedding ring.
I guess it's an unfortunate situation, my fellow BBW sisters, that we must deal with and wade ourselves through the BS in this life to find the man meant for each of us.

[meana0517 (deleted)]

`Big or small everyone wants to find the one that can love and be love. Personally, I was smaller when I was younger and found the way some of my exes acted to me very demeaning, i would rather be single forever than be mistreated, and even when I got bigger it never changed so I've been single for almost two years to avoid people acting stupid. I like a lot of petting and attention, i cant stand men who are looking for easy fun.