What the hell is wrong with the women of today!?!?!?!?!?

[robbinsteel (deleted)]

I just want to ask one simple question, what the hell is wrong with the women today??? And please don't get offended when I ask this question but I'm a 23/m/latino that loves bigger older women and for some reason I have tried to get the attention of these women and I don't even get a chance to get shut down. They just don't reply. Now if you ask me, and I was an older woman and a younger guy was interested in me I would, at the least, talk to him and try to feel him out before I shut him down. If you would like to contact me about this and tell me about yourself I'm on yahoo at: (removed) or you can contact me here.

[metalman69_PREV (deleted)]

In response to what you wrote, you got to understand that women prefer different things about men in life. Just because you say you are 23/m/latino does not mean that all or any women in the catagory that you are looking for will be interested. I personally get next to no replies at all for my profile, but at the same time I really don't give a damn. I am not going to put the blame on women for me doing poorly on here. You should not say there is something wrong with women because you are doing so badly on this site. Most of the time you got to put the blame on yourself and make changes that might improve your odds. Just like you I too will write a forum expressing how I feel about things, but that does not mean anyone will read it or it will change a thing(I think not). If you really think you are as good as you say and you are doing as badly as you say then maybe you should look at your approach and see what you might be doing wrong or sadly to say(but I am no judge of this) the women that you are dealing with might see your pictures and just plainly find you unattractive(which new or better photo can help with that).

I commend you on your high self esteem, but not where you put the blame.

[ssbbwnj (deleted)]

Amen metalman69

[blueeyedgodess]

Hey! I write to you... haha yeah you haven't writen back for a while. I know I am not older then you, maybe what goes around goes around. You should start and reply to your own e-mails. maybe you forgot to write them back... thats prob. why you are not getting any more messages from them. haha

.*:AmAnDa:*.

[(deleted)]

Amen metalman69 ...i agree with the sista that said that!

metalman.....you are so right!

now to the young man...metal couldn't have said it any bette....but here's my 2cents.....everyone on earth has been turned down...even thsoae who are considered good-looking. ther's no reason to get all upset. now i've had so many young men who tried to hit on me... from 18- 30....it's flattering,true!...but i am old enough to be their mothers...i have a daughter who's 30,and 3 younger than she is!...i'm not knocking older women young men thing...but i've never been into younger men...i couldn't kiss or S-- them...i would feel i'm doing my sons.it's nothing negetive towards you guys....i know there are some very intelligent young men out there.again...it's just not for me,and it has nothing to do with their mental or s----l skills. you will find some older woman for you...but please don't put women down because of their peferences....peace1




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[robbinsteel (deleted)]

hay hold on a sec. everyone. I think that everyone took that all out of context. I didn't mean that in a bad way I was just sayin' that I perfer older women and that I thought that since I was young and se---lly activ e that I would be able to get next to an older woman. I didn't want everyone to gang up on me with that post. Next time I will watch my words folks. Sorry. But I still do love older women!!!!!

[metalman69_PREV (deleted)]

RobbinSteel said,
"I was just sayin' that I perfer older women and that I thought that since I was young and se---lly activ e that I would be able to get next to an older woman"


What are you trying to say? Are you saying that older men can not preform se---lly? And are you also saying that all older women want sex? How would you know these things? I'm almost 39 years old and I kind of take that as an insult.

[germanrockqueen_PREV (deleted)]

this is how I look at it.....

Older guys = experience = better in bed

older guys are also not wham bam thank you ma'am unlike a lot of younger guys who think of foreplay as just a BJ. Now note there are exceptions.... as always. This is just my view from personal experiences.

[carol55]

I am an older woman that prefers younger men. After reading Robbin and Metal's posts and profiles, I must say I'd choose to go out with Metal over Robbin. Robbin needs to understand just because an older woman likes younger men does NOT mean all she wants is S-- which appears to be Robbin's main intent. Robbin if I misread your profile, my apologies.
Women no matter their age want a man that appreciates them outside the bedroom as well as inside the bedroom. Men that don't want to be seen in public with me don't deserve my time or consideration.
Age really has nothing to do with whether a man is a better lover or not. Desire to please their partner, willingness to take time and learn what pleases them and being open to new experiences are more important. It takes time to learn what pleases a new lover. And ladies that works both ways.
Hope I've not stepped on any toes here putting in my 2 cents.
Good luck and Happy hunting everyone!
Carol
ps...I don't rule out older men either...age is just a number after all

[metalman69_PREV (deleted)]

carol55 Said,
"After reading Robbin and Metal's posts and profiles, I must say I'd choose to go out with Metal over Robbin."

I am very flattered carol55 and I thank you for your input, but I never wrote a response to this man's forum to compete with him in any way what so ever nor did I write anything here to porposely get attention drawn to my own profile. If you had read what I said in my first reply, I quote "I personally get next to no replies at all for my profile, but at the same time I really don't give a damn." you would realize that I am not really looking at all for anyone if I would say that. In this man's defense, I will say I did not write what I did to make him look bad, I only did it just to be honest and maybe point him in a better direction of doing things. I do believe everyone deserves a break once in a while for a mistake or two, which most people don't seem to give anyone these days. I did however get to read his profile just to see what that last reply meant and his profile does imply alot of physical things leading to the interest of sex, which is not always a bad thing. I think in this case this man should either redo his profile if he is looking for an honest relationship or just flat out admit all he wants is S-- and S-- alone(which I personally have absolutely no problem with someone that is honest about it).

By the way, I will tell you straight out I am no expert in the subject of dating advice, I just know where someone like this man is coming from because I too have made a hell of alot of mistakes with online dating in the past 3 years or so.

[jadezdreamz_PREV (deleted)]

`Personally I see both sides...however, Robbin, my thing is I am ready to settle down with a good man for the rest of my life, not just to have S-- with a younger man. Most younger men aren't ready for a long lasting/permanent relationship, so that's yet another reason why most older women aren't into younger men. But also, confidence is good, but you also have to learn how to treat us women like a lady-- open doors, pull out our chairs, etc etc...Good luck!

[sarathchandra]

.I am a single parent who is looking for a life partner.

[jesseh (deleted)]

robbinsteel wrote: I just want to ask one simple question, what the hell is wrong with the women today??? And please don't get offended when I ask this question but I'm a 23/m/latino that loves bigger older women and for some reason I have tried to get the attention of these women and I don't even get a chance to get shut down. They just don't reply. Now if you ask me, and I was an older woman and a younger guy was interested in me I would, at the least, talk to him and try to feel him out before I shut him down. If you would like to contact me about this and tell me about yourself I'm on yahoo at: (removed) or you can contact me here.

They probably think you're just a horn dog and aren't looking for that. Almost any woman can go to a freaking bar and pick up some loser to screw - but *if they're older especially* they're like 9 out of 10 times looking for someone to love them, and love back. Without all this stupid S-- nonsense clouding that! They don't have time to just be looking for sex, they're clock is ticking!

INTJesseh

[tearle1957 (deleted)]

Now wait just a minute! I resent your comment that an older woman is only here because her time is running out! The reason most older women won't look at a younger man is because the guys still have time to get married and have babies. That is the way it is supposed to be. I would love to have a younger man but how will he feel when we both get a little older. Can he deal with being 45 and her 55 or 60? Age is nothing as long as you can say in the future it still won't mean anything. I want someone for the rest of my life...not just the next ten years and then be left alone again.

[(deleted)]

`Robbin I just wanna say that Carrol is right, i would have to agree with her and metal but i do wanna say that ur a handsome man and just have patience someone special will come ur way.