What does it take???

[unbearablylight]

So I have been on this site for a couple of days or so. I've checked some of the guys out on this site. I've left little messages for them.. I've gotten views of my profile from some of them. However, I've not found anyone willing to actually talk to me. I'm an intelligent vivacious woman. I have lots of different interests. I'm not bad looking. So what is up with this site? Do I have to show my body parts to get someone to talk to me? Am I not big enough? I'm over 200 pounds and wear plus size clothing. Is it because I live in a relatively rural area? Any suggestions? I am open to talking to anyone. I'm here to meet men who like BBW's.

[shapeform]

.Sounds like these guys are either intimidated, or illiterate!

[h20mellon]

`I know how you feel "unbearablylight". I have had the same thing happen too me. I find myself wondering why the hesitation from these guys!!

[pr1758_PREV (deleted)]

unbearablylight wrote: So I have been on this site for a couple of days or so. I've checked some of the guys out on this site. I've left little messages for them.. I've gotten views of my profile from some of them. However, I've not found anyone willing to actually talk to me. I'm an intelligent vivacious woman. I have lots of different interests. I'm not bad looking. So what is up with this site? Do I have to show my body parts to get someone to talk to me? Am I not big enough? I'm over 200 pounds and wear plus size clothing. Is it because I live in a relatively rural area? Any suggestions? I am open to talking to anyone. I'm here to meet men who like BBW's.



I know how you feel , it can be tough I have been on here about the same amount of time as you and I have not found BBW's to chat with or talk to yet. I think im a great guy and I love meeting new people. I guess it is just the way it works. well good luck and I hope you meet a guy you like

[d3von_PREV (deleted)]

yeah i have the same problem i dont know why people dont wanna talk, might b that i dont have a pic, or i might just have the It flu or something

[shandriel]

`Well...face it guys...you dont want to talk to the girls with no pic...we don't want to talk to the guys without pics either. It's just human nature to want to know what the person you're talkin to looks like.

We all have a different idea in our head of what physically appeals to us....so...really...whats the point of chatting with someone....only to realize once ya finally see them...that you cannot imagine being with them.

So c'mon...all of you...Male and Female...post a blasted pic!

[kelli5_PREV (deleted)]

At least you get replies--I don't.

[shandriel]

`Not a lot of the men on this site seem to want to talk at all. I dunno what it is. I'm on another one...and there they actually talk...and flirt...and email...and its not even a free site like this one...go figure!

[epitaph_PREV (deleted)]

`What site is that Shandriel? Ide love to know. I dont mind if guys dont have pics. I just refuse to make the first move. I will answer all emails, even if its to say, Im sorry,Im not interested. I never ignore any. I get tons of responses on smooch.com. Most I say no thanks to. Based on the way they say hello, or there age, or there beliefs, or there location. Like people from the uk. I dont plan to move out of us, so I know it would never work out. But I DO answer. And its not even a site for bbw's.

[johnwilliams3rd_PREV (deleted)]

Men don't get any replies either. all of us sometimes need to talk to someone else than their best friend or their mom. I have been on this site many years, have gone and come back. I still have a complicated situation with my girlfriend but who cares all I want to do is talk because you get lonely, you just want to share.

And most of you if the emailer does not fit to a T what you are looking for, you wont even bother answering. Those that did, we had a great time and several have found great guys and are very happy but we still say hello at Xmas.

You never have to many friends.
MC

[johnwilliams3rd_PREV (deleted)]

h20mellon wrote: `I know how you feel "unbearablylight". I have had the same thing happen too me. I find myself wondering why the hesitation from these guys!!



I have a daughter in law, just about your age. they don't like you menyioning God. Well you know where they can ( and will go) eventually. Keep your path, the right one will come. Give yourself a chance to live before you serve.

MC

[johnwilliams3rd_PREV (deleted)]

unbearablylight wrote: So I have been on this site for a couple of days or so. I've checked some of the guys out on this site. I've left little messages for them.. I've gotten views of my profile from some of them. However, I've not found anyone willing to actually talk to me. I'm an intelligent vivacious woman. I have lots of different interests. I'm not bad looking. So what is up with this site? Do I have to show my body parts to get someone to talk to me? Am I not big enough? I'm over 200 pounds and wear plus size clothing. Is it because I live in a relatively rural area? Any suggestions? I am open to talking to anyone. I'm here to meet men who like BBW's.


LOL its like Shapeform says its because they are illiterate and blind....lol

MC