Virgins

[niceguy1991 (deleted)]

Just wandering if there were virgins out there like me.

[nerdtastic]

`Yup, we exist. Though I've noticed a lot fewer of us lately... Seems like as I get older, the virgin men keep getting younger. :(

[niceguy1991 (deleted)]

Yea that is true. The girl virgins are getting younger too, or it seems that way no one like to wait anymore.

[simplyfran (deleted)]

I'm an 18 year old Virgin.... I don't even know how to take that in.

[wafflemaker (deleted)]

`What the fack? I lost my virginity way too early to an evil evil girl. Haha. And I'm happy she's got 6 kids by 3 different guys.... Save your energy, save your virginity, find someone whose right for you, and don't fall for the ,"best friend," guy? Seriously why does everyone always say,"a friend."

Keep yourself happy, keep other people out of your pants unless you really know what you're doing and you want it to happen. ^_^

[niceguy1991 (deleted)]

20 yr old virgin here.
i didnt mean to upset u by saying the girl virgins are getting younger its just alot of girls i no have already lost theirs, at 15 some younger.

[simplyfran (deleted)]

``ahh, I'm not upset at all... just 18 and a virgin x|

[genome]

Im a virgin and im 22. Sometimes im embarrassed about it. Im not really in rush or anything. I kind of want a girlfriend more actually.

[micheleg28 (deleted)]

`I lost my virginity to an awful guy who broke up with me two days later by telling me about his encounter with another girl. It was very short (maybe 10 mins?) Time wise and other (lol) and,it was just terrible. Really, I applaud you all because in todays society, its harder to be a virgin than not. Wait until its truly special and there is real love. Otherwise, its not worth your time and effort, esp not your heartbreak. ;)

[niceguy1991 (deleted)]

It is nice to no there are others that are waiting.
Hope everyone finds their own true love.

[bbbbready]

`iam a virgin and ian 26yrs old. iam not upset about it. just waiting for the right person

[yourreallyfunny]

`first time with the one you love isnt all its cracked up to be. You start to feel paranoid etc. Ladies, guys, before you go any further with a guy/girl (super serious dating/engagement/marriage).

Sex is obviously important, so you need to make sure the person you plan to spend alot of your life with is compatible with you --------.

[wafflemaker (deleted)]

yourreallyfunny wrote: `first time with the one you love isnt all its cracked up to be. You start to feel paranoid etc. Ladies, guys, before you go any further with a guy/girl (super serious dating/engagement/marriage).

Sex is obviously important, so you need to make sure the person you plan to spend alot of your life with is compatible with you --------.




What?


Compatible --------? They're virgins. They pick someone appealing that has emotional value, that is quite possibly more ,"capable," than your average joe with a massive dong. Or some hot chick with a mountain of gold in her pants. Forgive me if I misunderstand this... Are you advocating them choosing someone,"familiar?" Or someone visually appealing? o_O

[yourreallyfunny]

`my bad, I left out alot cause my mind is scrambling.


Having --- with your love is nice, but once you reach a certain age, you just need to go out and do it, for many many reasons. Studies have shown that if males wait until after 21 to have --- for the first time, psychological and physical detriments affect you (impotency, premature ejaculation, etc) and it has a negative connotation towards women as well. Look at Brooke Shields; shes smoking since god knows when but has gone on record saying she feels ashamed of her body, due to her losing her V at damn near 22 (actual age escapes me)


Point is, for your sake and your future loved one's sake, just go out and do it, be safe mind you, but just do it. Once you get it over with, the stigma goes away and you can move on to other s---.

Im not saying to abandon hope or anything, Im just trying to be realistic here and lend a different perspective than the usual "I want to lose it to someone I love" shtick.

[wafflemaker (deleted)]

`I'm sorry but I don't know anyone who lost it to someone they love.

Ever.


It's always," a friend." Psssh. My first time looked at me and she said,"the first is never the last, and I'm not your girlfriend." So yeah that's pretty harsh on a dude at that age. I don't think it's really all that bad to wait. It eliminates alot of expensive habits and gives you alot more free time I'll tell you that haha...