To Fat or Not Fat Enough?

[mezzoantix (deleted)]

The subject line, is probably all that needs to be said, or asked as the case may be. I am 310lbs. I find that this is to fat for a majority of the population, yet....really not fat enough for those wonderful souls that do infact love'em....FaT!

So, If a girl is comfortable in the 300 lb range, what sort of 'man' demographic does that leave her with?

[nicki (deleted)]

`This is where the preference guide should be filled out on profiles...this is a site for larger people but some people want what I call small large whereas some want x large large lol... check the profiles of those who interest you and see if they have the preference line filled out if not asking is a simple way to find out... good luck in your search

[wot450 (deleted)]

`It's funny you bring that up. As I was filling out the questions, the categories really don't break down that information well enough. Regardless, in most cases it shouldn't really matter; be honest with your info and photos and the problem should really work itself out. Besides, 300 is a pretty good zone to be in in my opinion.

[mezzoantix (deleted)]

`Well, pictures are definatly honest. I've not heard of anyone ever pretending to be fat. haha.

Youre right about the categories not being well defined. The more I begin to experience the SS/BBW/FA Chubby Chaser yadayada world, The more I think 300 is where that cut off between SS and BB are. It truly feels like a dry area, so to speak. But that definition is not ... defined.

though, youre right. Why should it matter.

[ssbbwloverinnv (deleted)]

` I have heard that anyone over 350 lbs. can be considered an SSBBW, but you're right, it is kind of a grey area. But you are at the right place where there are men like myself who can appreciate women like you.

[wynslove (deleted)]

`I'm in the same boat as you only about 10 lbs higher. heehee. I can never figure this stuff out. I'm comfortable where I am, in fact would rather be a bit lower, as my back starts to bug me when I get beyond 305.
I can't seem to please anyone where I'm at but myself.... Which makes for a lonely & confusing life.
Good luck sweetie.... It really shouldn't matter as long as you're happy & comfortable in the range you're in. : )

[minsky]

`I just looked at your photos Mezzo and I think you're GORGEOUS. Especially love the pink flower in your hair.

[fatsearcher]

`Putting a number on it is tough. I like a woman that's fat though, so if I had to put a number on it, I guess around 300. Now if she wants to continue gaining weight, or can't seem to stop, I won't complain. After all, it's her body, and I wouldn't want her unhappy. All the praise in the world can't make her like it, if she doesn't.

[tnbecca]

`I get more of the "you're to big". Oh well! :P

[thelonelydoctor (deleted)]

`See, why the labels? I just see it as a person. Sure if you would like to consider yourself a BBW, by all means go for it, as long as it makes you happy. If you feel like you want to "Categorize" yourself as an SSBBW, you're free to do so, as long as you're happy. See where I'm getting at; be happy for who you are, not how you are.

And does Weight really matter, its just a number. I love playing that game, I ask people "How much you think I weight", and they start polite with 250lbs , I say nope go higher, 280, nope, 290, nope, 300?? and that's when they start giving me the you are joking , you are not more than 300? I say keep going, 310, 320, 330?? Nope keep going.. 340? On a good week yes!!!

So asking, or looking for how much they weight is completely irrelevant for me, that's why I have no preference on height or weight cause I really don't give a s#!t. But!!! If you put limits on your preference, then can't really complaint on people putting limits on you.

The Doctor

[rarthus (deleted)]

I can't believe I'm gonna call myself "strange" for having this kind of fet--- despite being on this site but here it goes...

To me, as strange as I might seem, naturally I love women of all size plus size. But what I'm looking for is a woman who's a BBW but wouldn't be disgusted of herself if or when the day comes when she's a SSBBW. Like if a woman's okay with their image now, they've gotta be okay with it later on too. So at first I'd guess around the 200 range, then if they smile and say "Too low" then I know I've hit the jackpot. Because if they're okay with their weight then, and I tell them why they should be okay with it and why I love their weight, then they'd be okay with when they're, I don't know in the 300 to 400 range.

And if I at all got off topic then I apologize. I just hope someone understands where I'm coming from. (Preferably a BBW).

[3chocobbwkisses]

`ppl mostly say im to big, but oh well i think i carry it well

[southernfinery]

`I just get ignored online and offline so I don't know what kind of man likes big or bigger.It would be nice to find out though lol.

[1957wkw]

`I want someone I can take a nice hand-holding walk with outdoors so I tend to prefer it in the 200 - 300 # range.

[amberalert (deleted)]

`I've been a bit unsure whether my size is a preference as well on here. I am 5'4" and 210 lbs. and that seems to be too big for most people, but on this site I almost feel too small lol. When I see the "Who's Popular" section it seems to be filled with girls that are weigh 100+ more than I do, so I don't know.

I'm sure there are plenty of men that love your size and mine. The way I see it, if I'm not small enough, or big enough for most, then I don't have to waste my time with the majority of people out there before finding someone that digs ME and MY body.