Saying I love you during...

[daydreamer86 (deleted)]

So I've been dating this guy for about 2 months. It's been a pretty slow relationship meaning we didn't jump into it. We've only been out twice but we talk everyday throughout the day. So we've slept together for the first time yesterday and during he said "I love you" twice. I said it back. Now I do love him, but I wasn't exactly ready to say it yet (When I am ready I don't mind to be the first). He hasn't mentioned it or said it again and we have talked for a little bit today already. I guess my question is, should I bring it up? On one hand, when he said it it sounded sincere, but on the other hand, he may have just been caught up in the moment. I'm thinking I should wait and see if he brings it up or see if he says it again the next time we are together.What do you think?

P.S. It was DURING the act and not before, so I know he wasn't just trying to get in my pants...it was a pretty sure thing lol

[southernfinery]

`hi hun how r u?I was thinking that if he said it during the heat of the moment then perhaps he let how he was really feeling about you slip out.He probably hasn't said it again especially outside the throws of passion because you said it back to him.He is probably wondering the same thing you are.He is probably on pins and needles the same as you not knowing what to do or say next.If you two have already let ur guard down enough to allow him in so closely then surely u can let ur guard down enough to ask the question that is eating away at u both.I know one of u has got to bring it up and if that is u then be the strong independent woman I know u r and ask but be tactful.Good luck and gbu both.I hope it last forever,this relationship with him and I hope ya become best friends.

[daydreamer86 (deleted)]

ooooh goodness. Let me tell ya what's going on now...So yesterday he texts me that his friend Ross likes me and I should talk to him......yeah. I'm like wtf?!?!? I say "I don't want to talk to him, I kinda like someone else " and his response to that was "Well 2 bad next time we hang u should get to know him"....then I say "Do you not like me anymore? You don't wanna go out?" His reply "I do" And that's where it was left. I'm so very very confused!!!! I tried to talk to him on the phone last night but he said he was tired and we'd talk today. uuuggggggh!

[andriek]

Ok to me that sounds like he isn't interested in you. I mean he is trying to pass you off to his friend. Then the way you said he said he liked you really says to me that he doesn't

[mizcurious3 (deleted)]

`Maybe he likes you as a friend. He likes spending time with you but he isn't interested in you for a love relationship. The only way to find out is by asking him straight out. It might be mean to say, but in reality sometimes those three words don't mean much to some people. They easily give those words away. Idk.. You are in a tough situation.