OK i'm going THERE!!!

[ggr1972 (deleted)]

I may be the only one to admit this but i am sick and tired of hearing how men are ONLY here because we feel bigger gals are desperate. Like we are here because bigger gals are the last resort!

That is extremely insulting. I am 6'5 320lbs....I don't want a little twig that i'll have to worry about breaking in any type of fun activity. That is MY choice.

I hate to brreak the news to you folks, but this IS A BBW site...guys come here because (SHOCK) they may like BBWs!!!! Most of us have no agenda...no sleazy logic.....

It seems to some that they like telling everyone how men won't talk to them because of their size (bad men obviously) BUT when a guy does show interest then it MUST be because they think the lady in question is desperate (once again...bad guy)

Really...give us a chance. I'm sure you gals will run into enough idiots without making all guys into bad guys beforehand.

[spellbound2686 (deleted)]

`I can totally see where you're coming from - it is one of those issues where one rotten fruit spoils the bunch. Or in this case, many rotten fruits cover the good one! I am pretty new to this site, and I love it because it is so open minded, but as someone who has been a big girl for a very long time, I will say that men really assume that because we're bigger we're desperate or we will be more willing to please because hey, we don't have any other options.
I agree though, while it is easier to avoid heartache by assuming everyone is out to get us we should be open minded and look at men as individuals not as a group. That's just as bad as men looking at all of us as desperate and easy. In short, I see both sides but I agree with you, everyone deserves a chance to be seen as they are and not as we assume they might be.

[maikastar]

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This.

It is hard though, I agree.