Hello! Here's my intro...

[vexed6]

I will try to keep this breif but feel free to ask me anything I miss.

I'm 45, married mom of 2, originally from the US, living in Switzerland now... missing home like crazy.

I'm here, hoping to make friends and see where it goes. Bash me if you want for looking elsewhere outside of my marriage for perhaps more, but each situation is different for everyone.

Three years ago my husband was diagnosed with Testicular Cancer (guys please check yourself regularly and go to the doctor at the first sign of ANYTHING that is different). He had surgery to remove one of his testicles and sadly all ------ desires also disappeared, even to the point he doesn't even have a desire to fulfill my needs.

Three years now I have been flying solo, depression set in and I decided to save myself and my marriage and look for something without strings attached. To be honest I just miss the intimate touch and experiences of another. Never would I be one to hurt him intentionally, but at the same time I am hurting in ways too.
Perhaps this is a solution, perhaps not... just something I need to explore at this time. Hopefully soon we will be able to return to the US, seems Boston is a strong possibility which I'm keeping my fingers crossed for.

In the meantime I hope to make lots of friends and enjoy communicating in English again with out talking in butchered broken German.

[bluesman1 (deleted)]

`hey girly dont get down on urself .we all have needs and it sounds like your situation really sucks.sorry about that anyway i cant seem to find anyone on this sight so maybe we could be pinpals for now im in la .have u ever been? anyway hit me up

[bitis (deleted)]

`Hello Vexed!

For what it is worth, my limited opinion given the backround, this need is only natural, and if you keep your love kindled, by seeking pleasures from another consenting and morally agreeable person, then i think it is the best thing for you both

So welcome, and i really hope you find what you need, the ppl here i have spoken to in the last week have been 99% really nice, so im guessing your chances are good :)