Distance makes the heart grow fonder?

[indigoirene (deleted)]

Why is it on this site (well for me) most guys i'm interested in live either overseas or eight states to the west (lol). Alright, say I do send messages to guys that catch my eye that live out of state, then what? I'm not really looking for a pen pal (i'm looking to date, in the flesh lol) or a see you when I get vacation time from work thing (lol) Why bother? And I know this next question is probably off topic, but interracial dating in the plus size world? (can it?) I've always had an attraction to white men, but never really pursued them. This year I've been boarding my horizons lol, (that's what brought me here) I've sent messages to white guys on here, and .....Nada.

[eros89]

`Know what you mean it seems (for me anyway) hard to simply find someone active and local, much less talk to them. Most of my profile viewers are at least two states away, which for me makes meeting next to impossible.