wildflower68 (deleted)
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Posted: Post subject: I can relate |
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I actually met this guy from myspace a couple of years ago, we actually chatted online for 2 years before we met in person. He "claimed" he admired the person I am, and thought I was beautiful the way I was, it didn't matter to him if I was overweight, skinny, white, black, blue or purple, as he put it.. Anyway to make a long story short. we were together for only a year, he was just waiting around for me to lose weight because he said I had such a beautiful face, and looked young for my age, blah, blah, blah. I ended that relationship because he was only in it for superficial reasons, like if I lost weight I would be some type of trophy girlfriend. He had seen pictures of me when I was thin, and I guess was waiting for me to turn into that over night. Its going to take a lot for me to lose weight because I have a thyroid condition, in fact they weight may never come off.. If someone is going to love me, they are going to have to accept me at my current weight, and love me for me.. So just lay it on the table, if they dont accept you for who you are, tell them to kiss your ass.. Your a beautiful lady, it doesnt matter what size you are..
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