Wittywisewoman, 56

I am looking for a loving, intelligent man with a sense of humor about himself, a quick wit and a keen intelligence. I am the same kind of person. I will write more later, but the key thing I am looking for in you is an ability to engage with me emotionally. You have to know yourself, the good and the bad, and you have to let me see them both. I can't do all the work myself.

I am culturally sophisticated, favoring theater, live music, concerts, museums, travel, opera and film as pastimes. I write a lot too. Books, the performing arts and food and wine culture are extremely important to me. I have lots of other interests, but those are key. We don't have to be the same, we don't have to share everything, but some overlap here is important.