Vwordsandmusic, 50

for me, large & feminine equals security & warmth. are you ready for a challenge, someone who asks a lot, but gives a lot back in return? i'm a contented budding music artist interesting in running my own arts business {web keyword = vwordsandmusic}, looking for an intelligent, caring, open-hearted ssbbw of any age who wants someone different. .......

i like many types of music, including classical music. i am more a country pub person than a raver. .......

if i’m honest, i am someone who likes to take charge in relationships in some ways, so if you are the type that is easily offended by that, i am not who you’re looking for. but does that mean your opinion doesn’t matter, or that i won’t listen and keep a secret to a good friend? well, of course not! .......

because of my alternative, progressive spiritual beliefs and politics, i'm polygamous / polyamorous {probably the best way to describe it}, but that doesn't mean i'm promiscuous (ugh, no!). i'm honest and i pour my heart out to those closest to me. ......

i am a very ------- person when push comes to shove, and as someone who loves being around loving families, children are a possibility if my financial situation - and life in general - improves.......if you are much older, you could be a bit like the “auntie” i always wished i’d known - and there’s nothing wrong with that!....... guys - not ruling you out, but my criteria is much stricter in same-sex relationships.

physically, a very broad, hefty partner with big sturdy feet always impresses me. i adore long hair too, though it’s not essential. no tattoos or body piercings, sorry!

i have had my fair share of knocks to both health and confidence lately, but i always seem to bounce back stronger than before. i suppose some of my unusual views come from my life experiences - both good and bad - and with age, i’ve learned things - and love - are rarely straightforward.