SSBBW Sweetie in Vermont
I haven't tried dating for a while, but I thought I'd give it another go...
So I guess I'm less of a BBW than a SSBBW. I'm working on my health in the present and for the future. I try to eat healthy (which I HATE) and I swim laps (which I LOVE). I care about how I look and how I present myself. I have no need or desire to be a cookie-cutter Barbie, but I want to live a long, healthy, happy life, and I'm not capable of that as things stand right now.
I love music, animals and my family. I'm 38, live alone, single, never married, with no kids. I love kids, but I'd honestly prefer you don't have any at the moment. I'm D&D free, a non-smoker, and would NEVER date a smoker. I'm open to dating further away, but I'm not looking for super long distance.
I'm looking for dating, fun, and a relationship. By "fun" I don't mean a fling or n--/FWB, but I want a guy I can laugh and joke with. Someone who will go see a sappy girl movie, a raunchy comedy, and fun sci-fi, a silly family flick, or a kick-your-teeth-in action movie, but wouldn't even make me sit through a TRAILER for a horror movie. Someone who can push me to try new things, but who can also stay at home and lounge around, or have a lazy Sunday. Someone to play mini-golf or ski-ball at an arcade, or go see the fireworks on the 4th. A guy who doesn't need me to do his laundry or make his bed, but who pulls out chairs and opens door. I'm a door opener, it's just the right thing to do! (=You don't walk on me, & I don't walk on you.)
In the end, I'm loving, affectionate, sweet, kind, TRYING to live in the moment, and working to live my life as happily as I can manage without hurting anyone else in the process. Does that make sens