Tubbyintampa, 60

Real People Have Curves I am a BBBW (Big,Beautiful Black Woman), well educated, professional, confident, strong, passionate, loyal and down to earth. I am quick witted, I love to laugh, love music and love white guys specifically, but men in general. I am looking for validation in the BBW community because I am so
over being judged according to the mainstream standard of beauty. I want companionship...someone to chill with who will not be embarrassed about hanging out with a big chick. I am heavy but I carry my weight well and I am very stylish. I want to meet someone who can handle a big girl and can appreciate me even though I am not a size 6. I love life, I love people and I am highly social so you won't find me hiding out in my house. I am usually the life of the party but I am just as comfortable hanging out observing others at the party. I don't have time for games, therefore, I don't play them.
I am not going to lie...I want to be adored!!!!! I spend a great deal of my time building other people up and making them feel good and I need the same from time to time. I love romantic,intellectuals who are professional and have their stuff together. I crave affection...I am all about the hugs and kisses. But more than anything, I am looking for companionship. I don't have to be in charge but I don't want to be controlled. I want someone who is positive and shares the same zest for life I possess. I am not looking to get married or have children...I have done both. I want to have fun and I want to hang out with someone who wants to have fun. I don't want to constantly feel like I need to apologize for what I look like. Nor do I want be made to feel less than when a skinny chick walks in the room. I want someone who thinks I am the sexiest chick in the room. I like big men and little men. I have a thing for guys with blue eyes. Hair color does not matter...attitude does. I am outspoken and a litte wild at times but I am a good person with a big heart.