But in my case, I really am a bit outside the mainstream. I love the creature comforts, but I'm not materialistic. I'm much more interested in experiences than possessions. You can't take things with you when you die, but knowledge is eternal. I'm -------, cerebral, affectionate, empathic, inquisitive, intelligent, loyal, passionate, compassionate, and a good listener. I can be very silly and social, but on the other hand I need a lot of time to myself to recharge my emotional batteries. So I'm usually best in a small group or one on one unless the crowd happens to be a concert or a goth club. Love travel, conversation, goth/ebm/industrial music. Love to design and sew my own costumes and gothic style clothing. Love the dark romantic aesthetics of candlelight, moonlight, fire, wind, rain, thunder, a stormy sea . . . black lace, satin, velvet, leather.Seeking someone I can connect with on a deep level. Intelligence, curiosity, and a sense of adventure in life are important, along with a kind spirit. Geeky is good, glasses are optional.
