Susy1986, 38

Looking for a guy who will show up in a pickup truck, not on a white horse. So my name is Susy and I always find it hard to describe myself, because who I think I am isn't what others see me to be. I am a caring person,but not an overly emotional one. It does take me awhile to open up to people, but it's worth the effort. I am a shy person, but after awhile I will get comfortable and I will talk. I love to talk when there is something to talk about, but sometimes I just need a bit of silence as well. I am not an overly hyper person, just the opposite I am very laid back. I have a deep love for my friends and for my family, and I dream of having my own family one day, my goal is to have it before I am 25, we'll see. Ok so now on to the basics. I am a full time college student entering my last year at USI. I am almost finished with a Graphic Design degree and do enjoy it, but I am not sure if it's what I want to do for the rest of my life. I am an avid animal lover. I most definitely love kids and want a few of my own one day.

In regards to my match... my match.. hmmm... let's see. I guess he would have to be caring and compassionate as well. A man... not a boy, a man who understands how to treat a woman. Someone who isn't degrading, overly confrontational, rude, arrogant, pompous, or lacks any sense of good hygiene--yes this is oh so very important. I need someone who has his act together.Since my life can be very busy yet boring at times, I would love a little spontaneity in a relationship. Randomly show up at my work just because you wanted to see me. Send me a rose, a single rose just because. I know it seems silly or wishy washy, but those are some of the things I like. I need a man that understands that in a relationship, the emotional bonding and closeness a couple needs to have with each other comes way way before the mention of s--. I have never been in love and have never had the emotional and spiritual connection people are supposed to have with each other. Part of me thinks it will never happen... can you prove me w