Ssbbwbeth, 44

Looking for friends first First I'm a mom with 2 great kids ages 10 and 15. I am self employed full time. I'm very shy until I know you better. I think it's best to start out as friends rather than jumping straight into dating. You could say trial and error led me to this. I want to know the you that you hide from your dates but will show your best friend. I personally am an open book. I like finding out about people through conversations and getting out rather than playing 20 questions and finding out everything all at once.

I enjoy playing pool, going out to eat, watching movies at home, theaters are ok too but not really good for getting to know someone. I'm also a gamer and like playing various xbox and pc games. I also like arts and crafts and signing karaoke.

My idea guy would be sweet and a little old fashion, holding doors and stuff like that. He would smell good during our dates and be all trimmed up. Must be a huger. Even at the friendship stage hugs are a must. He must be able to support himself financially.