Are you man enough?

I'm not here for a "quick fix", so if that's what you after, please move on... And if by now you're still reading, here's a little about me: divorced; full time working mom of two (only one still living at home -- along with our dog) enjoying a drama free life and want to keep it that way. I love the Lord! I love to laugh, go out every once in a while, hang out with friends or stay home and watch movies, or travel. And I love to cook... :-b I'm romantic, spontaneous and have a weakness for men who can give great hugs!!

As a single mom I'm independent and used to taking care of business on my own (... even though that does get old after a while...) - so I need a self-assured man with enough patience, humor and back bone who doesn't feel "threatened" by that.

A man I can look up to - literally! In other words: I like men TALLER than me, with meat on their bones (I'm 5'11" and like wearing heels). And no offense to anyone, but I prefer BLACK men! I'm not impressed by the "super cool", the "pretty boy" or the "body builder" - but by a great smile and matching personality! A man who has his priorities straight, loves children and dogs, with a positive attitude about life, who likes to laugh and doesn't take himself and life THAT serious; and who's not afraid to display emotions. One who knows what he wants in life and takes care of his business. Stable, trustworthy, and with the ability to communicate. ;-D