Looking for a semi serious partner I'm returning to the US after spending the last 11 years in China and I"m looking for a partner that isn't a one night stand.
I have a child and I've returned to the US to take care of my aging grandmother so I'm not going to be going to parties or hanging out for long periods of time, but I'd like to find someone who I can spend my precious 'alone' time with.
I'm a fairly serious person and though I might act tough but I hate getting hurt...and I seem to get hurt a lot. So it will take me a little while to warm up to you- take it as a test. IF you're not willing to invest a little time getting to know me and letting me get to know you- then you're probably not for me. But for those who do crack my shell, I can assure you that you'll never feel neglected.
I'm curvy but being in China has hurt my body image some- they can be kind of rude about it. So I'm looking for a guy who likes my looks and my age. I'm older but I have always gone out with much younger guys.
To be honest, I have really "dated" before...so I'm not sure what type I am, but I do like most anything from dancing at a club to a quiet walk chatting. It's been yeas since I really spent any time with anyone who spoke English enough to carry on a decent conversation.
I am a very physical- touchy feely person and I'd like to find a partner who is the same...it's important to me.
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Spending time in China but I`ll always be a Cali girl at heart
About Me
Gender
Female
Orientation
Straight
Height
5'04"
Weight
200 lbs
Hobbies & Interests
computers, cosplay, dancing, fleamarkets, internet, killing zombies, manga, movies, music, reading, travel, video games, writing
Body Type
a few extra pounds, large, overweight, pleasantly plump, voluptuous
Movies
action, animation, comedy, fantasy, indie, steamy, romantic comedy, sci-fi
Orientation
asexual, straight
Eye Color
black, brown
Hair Color
a little gray, black, dark brown, auburn
Ethnicity
Caucasian, Hispanic / Latino, Mixed Race, Native American
Relationship
separated, single
Have Kids
yes, yes - single parent home
Education Level
Bachelor's Degree, college grad
Profession
Education / Academic Research, Other
Income level
that's private
Do you smoke?
cigarettes, cigars, daily, like a chimney, socially, chain smoker
Do you drink?
no, socially, teetotaller
I currently live
family and friends visit often, on a pirate ship, with kids, with roommate(s)
Socially, I am
a couch potato, anti-social, better in small groups, home body, loner, shy at first, but warm up quickly, a total freak
Political Views
not interested in politics
Food Related
BRAINS!!!, Carnivore, Chinese, Diet Phobic, Italian, Japanese, Mexican, Omnivore, Raw Food, Soul Food, Sushi, Thai
Personality
artistic, clown, dominatrix, fun loving, geek, intellectual, introvert, liberal, loner, lover, nerd, pirate, romantic, total slacker
Individuality
artist, cougar, piercings, pirate at heart, tattoos, vampire, emo
Religious Views
Not Religious, but Spiritual
I'm looking for
conversation, dating, fun, mr. right, mr. right now, penpal, relationship, romance, something interesting, soulmate, the yin to my yang
My Sign
i was born in november, scorpio : oct. 23-nov. 21
Military Service
army, veteran
Pets
No pets currently (but like them), Small Furry Creature
Gender
Female, Not Sure
Music
Indie, Industrial, Jazz-Fusion, Post Rock, Progressive Rock, Punk, Rock, Techno, Trance, World, Alternative Rock, Celtic, Dance, Folk, Hard Rock, Hardcore
Hair Style
curly, ponytail
Fitness & Sports
swimming
Health Related
eastern medicine
Languages
Chinese, English, Mandarin, The Language of Love
Looking for
Hobbies & Interests
baking, comic books, computers, cosplay, dancing, fishing, fleamarkets, horseback riding, internet, killing zombies, manga, movies, music, naturism, painting, photography, pole dancing, puzzles and brain teasers, reading, robotics, sports, television, travel, video games, weather, writing
Their Body Type
athletic, average, bodybuilder, fit, skinny, slender, slim, supermodel
Movies
action, comedy, drama, indie, nothing but porn, romance, romantic comedy, sci-fi
Orientation
asexual, bisexual, straight
Eye Color
black, blue, brown, glass, gray, green, hazel
Their Ethnicity
Asian, Caucasian, Hispanic / Latino, Native American, Pacific Islander, Vulcan
Relationship
divorced, separated, single, single - never married, widowed
Do they smoke?
daily, electronic cigarettes, for medicinal purposes, hookah, like a chimney, no - open to dating smokers though, only when I drink, pipe, socially, 420, ceremonial smoking, chain smoker, cigarettes, cigars, clove cigarettes
Do they drink?
no, socially, wine
They currently live
alone, family and friends visit often, in a van down by the river, on a pirate ship, there is a party every night, with pets, with roommate(s)
Socially, they are
a couch potato, anti-social, better in small groups, class clown, comic relief, home body, loner, shy at first, but warm up quickly, side kick
Food Related
Carnivore
Personality
burner (burning man participant), clown, coffeeholic, dominatrix, frugal, fun loving, geek, intellectual, introvert, loner, lover, nerd, pirate, punk, romantic, thrifty, total slacker
Individuality
cougar lover, magician, ninja, piercings, pirate at heart, psychic, superhero, superhero sidekick, tattoos, vampire, werewolf
They are looking for
conversation, dating, friends - with benefits, friends only, miss right, miss right now, mr. right, mr. right now, penpal, relationship, romance, something REALLY hot, soulmate, the yin to my yang
Their Sign
cancer : june 21-july 22, capricorn : dec. 22-jan. 19, pisces : feb. 19-march 20, scorpio : oct. 23-nov. 21, taurus : april 20-may 20, virgo : aug. 23-sept. 22
Pets
Small Furry Creature
Gender
Male
Music
Techno, Trance, World, Alternative Rock, Celtic, Dance, Folk, Funk, Hard Rock, Hardcore, Heavy Metal, Indie, Industrial, Jazz, Jazz-Fusion, Metal, Post Rock, Progressive Rock, Punk, Reggae, Relaxation and Meditation, Rock, Screamo, Ska
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