Scott77a, 47

Still looking for the right one. My name is Scott, I live in Jersey, and I'm looking for an HONEST gal. I'm sick of how most people are dishonest and do not know how to handle a serious relationship. I'm not the kind to play games or mess with anyones heart. I'm big on meeting anyone new that has something interesting to talk about. I'm pretty much down to earth, pretty laid back, loving, understanding, faithful, dedicated, smart, funny, sarcastic (which can be a lil much to deal with at times but I try n slow my role)....I'm very open minded and will speak my mind or challenge you in a conversation. I love to talk about anything and everything. I can be a lil too blunt or honest but wouldn't you rather have someone who is honest and right to the point rather than lie or BS you? When it comes to dating, I can be picky. At least to a certain extent. I rely alot on my gut instinct when I'm around someone, and if it's not there initially and there are no sparks right away to some degree, trust me, it won't grow on me. However, I've learned to heed some new advice I read in a book where the author curiously noted that people are often looking for the "perfect one" and when they come around, people want a relationship, rather than finding a relationship and letting yourself be open to having that person be your "perfect one".Therefore, I'm learning that like anything, relationships take time and effort in the early stages. However, I'm still a big believer in initial sparks of chemistry. I'm really looking for that one person who I can speak to on all levels. A girl that makes me laugh when I'm sad, a girl that can stand up to me when she thinks I'm wrong, and a girl that will value and respect my ideas no matter how outlandish they may be. Really, I want my best friend. The woman that walks into a room and I can feel her presence without even seeing her.If you're still interested after reading all thee above (lol), then you should message me. I'd like to meet intelligence and class, simple as that.