I'm a mature single parent with a steady job (well -- as steady as any job is these days!). I've been through the relationship wringer a few times and you probably have too. I'm looking for a smart, independent woman with intellectual curiosity and ------- fire. I've been very self-isolating the last few years. I'm ready to meet someone to hang out with, explore and have (low key) adventures.
I love to read, write and draw. I'm a sometimes small-press journalist and editor, zinester, horror film buff, radical activist, father of two fierce daughters.
Scholomancery, 53
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About Me
Gender
Male
Orientation
Straight
Height
6'02"
Weight
270 lbs
Hobbies & Interests
writing, reading, nature, comic books, history, killing zombies, manga, movies
Body Type
large
Movies
sci-fi, psychological thrillers, indie, horror, bollywood, black & white films, animation
Orientation
straight
Eye Color
hazel
Hair Color
a little gray, light brown
Ethnicity
Caucasian
Relationship
divorced, single
Have Kids
yes - single parent home
Education Level
some college
Profession
Journalist / Writer, Legal Services
Income level
$50,000-$100,000
Do you smoke?
no - open to dating smokers though
Do you drink?
beer
I currently live
with pets, with kids
Socially, I am
anti-social, home body, shy at first, but warm up quickly
Political Views
socialist
Personality
white trash, loner, introvert, intellectual, artistic, activist
Individuality
vampire, freak, brony, artist
Religious Views
Atheist
I'm looking for
the yin to my yang, soulmate, something interesting, romance, dating, conversation
My Sign
i was born in july
Pets
Cats, Turtle
Gender
Male
Music
Classical, Death Metal, Hip Hop, Industrial, Jazz, Motown, Punk, Rap, Rock
Health Related
therapy
Languages
English
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